I have not seen this guy for three years. He was sorta like my best friend. But he was my college professor. I am not in college anymore. We still like each other. We have not been intimate yet. I really want to be is it wrong. what should i do. oh i am 23 and he is 43. I do love him i need some major advice.
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19 hours ago
he is not married we have both been divorced. i was just wondering if maybe it is rebound for us both. I actually liked him before i got married but he has been divorced for about twelve years now. he is the nicest person that you could ever meet i actualy think that we are soul mates . i just want to be happy.
10 hours ago
we have communicated by phone but not seen each other because i was married at the time and now i am divorced. my ex did not like him at all. Technically i dont care. the older guy was my first love but i was scared of the age difference.
he has not been married for a while because of he was divorced but not too far later she passed away with a blood discease she had. I know this because she was a good friend of mine. there are no children involved. I just want to be happy. I think he needs to be happy as well.
2006-06-06 09:39:35 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
we feel the same about each other and my first marriage was a failure but we got over it and want to move on. things were just not meant to be. I really love this guy i really need this advice.
2006-06-06 09:51:43 · update #1
since before we have been intimate and i do love him whether people say so or not . My family supports my idea of being in love but advice is needed
2006-06-06 09:59:14 · update #2
You are having fantasies that you want him to fulfill... He was your mentor, so, you think its going to be "better" with him, than your former husband.
You need counseling on why your first Marriage failed, so that you wont repeat that mistake on your second Marriage!! With out it, your doomed to fail again, with these "little girl" fantasies that you are having....
I wish you well..
Jesse
2006-06-06 09:46:13 · answer #1 · answered by x 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
First, to say you think you are in LOVE brings doubt into your understanding of the word in the first place. Second , to say you were in love BEFORE you married somebody else would suggest you maybe need some time (years) to mature as I think it is irresponsible, as well as, selfish, to consider entering into any relationship when you're not even aware of the consequences of your actions.What about the last guy you were with,you MARRY him yet don't really think you are in love. I think you need time to grow,as does anybody of your age, before you get involved with this man.You owe that to yourself as well as him. I also noticed this question was posted under TRYING TO CONCEIVE. A mistake?, or another indication you need to grow up first. Good luck!
2006-06-06 09:53:04 · answer #2 · answered by DM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that if you really love him and he isn't your professor anymore then you should give it a try. but I think you guys should first hang out together as Friends and see where it goes from there.
2006-06-06 09:45:58 · answer #3 · answered by fandj4ever 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its fine and lovely to be in love.
Make sure he feels the same so you wont get hurt. Also use a condom if he love you he will make sure you are always protected.
2006-06-06 09:48:06 · answer #4 · answered by Queen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow ur heart is all i can say but think of all the consequencfes and pros and cons hope u be with ur trrue love good luck
2006-06-06 09:44:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous16 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋