why do i have to dress sexy to impress or get a man attention?

Answer 1

You don't really, although men being visual animals, will check out that hot chick with the sexy dress first.
I believe that is a prehistoric response to ensure the continuation of the tribe.
The thing is, although you may attract a man, with the sexy dress, what do you do, when you have him. It will take more than dressing sexy, to get him to stay and marry you.
That takes other skills. A good mind, a sense of humor, intelligence etc.
Sometimes it's easy to catch something, than it is to keep it.
What would you prefer. catch and release, or catch and keep?
The girls that end up with a husband and family, are those that know how to attract a man and keep him. That takes smarts.
So be sure you know what you are going after, before you change your bait.

Answer 2

I will admit that I am feeling it the way you do! I dress to please myself, whether there are men out there that appreciate it or not! For that matter, if I get a compliment from anyone, then I am good with that too! There are some days that I prefer to wear a dress or a skirt with heels, or boots, just as much as other days that I dress down, with jeans and a cute top. Now, unless I'm at home, cleaning and working hard, I dress accordingly, although I still dress in the best manner that I like, even working. I like to look good as much as I can. It doesn't matter if I am the only one that see's it. I like keeping my home looking good for me too, whether I have company or not! If that pleases any man out there, well good, I'm happy about that too! So, I don't think your crazy, I check myself in the mirror or a reflection whenever I feel like it. I don't mind complimenting someone on the way they look, if I like it, I don't care if it's a woman or a man! That's just the way I am. So, here's too you! I am glad that you like the way you look, I wish there was more people in the world that felt the same way, don't you? Maybe if they felt better about the way they looked, and took better care of it, these people wouldn't be out raping other people!

Answer 3

You don't have to dress sexy in order to get a man's attention. Different men are attracted to different types of women. Some men find athletic women attractive, some find business type women attractive, etc. Dressing up occasionally for your man isn't a bad idea because it's nice, but you shouldn't feel you have to.
Are you trying to get the attention of the wrong type of guy? Just be yourself and dress how you feel comfortable. You'll know when the right type of guy finds you attractive - and you'll be able to be yourself.

Answer 4

There is more than one way for a woman to get a man's attention.

Putting on a sexy dress is certainly one way. Such a dress emphasises and partly reveals your sexually attractive body parts to men. And showing men what they want to see is a good way to get their attention.

You can also get a man's attention by speaking with him and being friendly with him. An astute man will see your sexual appeal even when you wear your ordinary clothes and don't use any make-up.

Answer 5

Men are only after one thing hun, and that is to get in our pants. Don't dress sexy for them, do it for you! You can't say you don't feel pretty when you dress up a bit, but becareful what you are marketing cause you might attracted the wrong type. I think that the whole dressing sexy thing is more a game girls play with eachother cause guys only remember stuff like she had a cute butt, she smells good, or she has good features (eyes, butt, chest, whatever?) Guys couldn't tell you what she smelled like, just that she smells good and was pretty, makes sense??? Just be you and keep doing what you do!

Answer 6

I never dress too sexy and I have never had a problem with getting a guy. Maybe your face isn't so attractive. Sorry but most girls I see who are letting it all hang out don't have a lot in the face area going for them so they make up for it other areas.

Answer 7

because a man is visual and unless he already knows you, then he needs to be attracted to you some way. But you don't have to dress sexy, just dress like your self and the right man will come along

Answer 8

Thats ridiculous. Dress what you think is comfortable. Do not pretend to be something you are not just to get a man's attention.

Answer 9

Very much depends on the man. Some of don't require that. I'll be honest and say it helps, but it's not required.

Answer 10

don't you think that maby THAT'S what YOU want and what you think?...well of course,everyone likes a little show of skin but isn't a confident woman THE HOTTEST THING ever!! i mean,think of it this way;you cannot wear something sexy 24/7? when are you gonna live your life then?