ok well ive been with my boyfriend for almost 7 months, it kinda feels like hes holding me back tho..kinda like hes taking the fun out of my life, we go thru alot expecially with him living in New york in me living in Springfield, Mass were 3 hrs apart n we onli saw eachotha 3 times...i rly love him but he dosnt like alot of my friends n he ALWAIS wants to talk 2 me..like its a ritual everyday @ 5:30 i call him n we talk til like 8 then he calls me @ 9 and we talk til i fall asleep. i love the boi 2 death but i like need to live my life..and weneva i dont call ontime he gets mad..i really wanna party and goout and stuff but he dont want me 2 cus he dont want no1 else lookin @ me and he thinks ima play him because ive played him b4. idk wut 2 do
2006-06-06 09:36:50 · 11 answers · asked by babygirl08237 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Just let him go. You can't be home all the time just for him. Your in the big city do you want your only experience to be phone conversations, what fun is that. The only reason why I say let him go is cuz where you played him before there is probably no trust on his part in you, so there for you can't all ways be explaining your self or sitting on the phone with him day and night to feed his insecreities. I think you should offer to take a break from each other and see where that goes. hope this helps and good luck
2006-06-06 09:42:19 · answer #1 · answered by sexzbich 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dont think u can trust him. he probably knows that he's playing the field behind ur back, so he thinks you are doing the same. He is too possessive, thats a HUGE turn-off for anyone.
However he could be a real decent guy and misses you terribly,but because you have betrayed his trust b4, he doesnt think you are trust worthy.
Long distant relationship by itself is difficult, but no relationship can exist without mutual trust. It will be hard for you to earn his trust in this situation, so it may be best to end it.
2006-06-06 16:48:07 · answer #2 · answered by Sammy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! What a problem!! I think he get's upst when you don't call him on time because he's scared he's gonna loose you. You need to tell it's over or you need to tell him (only if you REALLY love) that if he want's to stay with you he need's to trust you and no more of this on the dot phone calls, call each other when you have time, and also tell him to take a chill pill, before he kills himself goin' stupidly insane over you!! Best of Luck!!!
2006-06-06 16:44:47 · answer #3 · answered by To sweet for 16 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him to chillax! and trust you and that you love him but you need sum space! he seems like a good guy and tell him not ruin a good relationship with over protectiveness! u need 2 live ur life
2006-06-06 16:49:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
baby girl, you need to live your life. go out and have fun. long distance relationship is hard to work out. but remember that you need to be happy. do things you want to do.
2006-06-06 16:40:02 · answer #5 · answered by harmony 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how u feel if he dont like it he will have to get over it, besides he probably does those things without you knowing...
2006-06-06 16:39:49 · answer #6 · answered by rebekah h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya you do just let him go tell him you really love him but its to much for you.....you want a life of your own to have fun and do what you want
2006-06-06 16:42:33 · answer #7 · answered by snow_gueen_100 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uummm.....what's the problem - HE LIVES 3 HOURS AWAY, do what you want - you have the best of both worlds
2006-06-06 16:47:24 · answer #8 · answered by sa-da-tay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. You're not ready to settle.
2006-06-06 16:40:02 · answer #9 · answered by kalsmom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get rid of him. you don't need this. just go and be yourself.
2006-06-06 16:40:58 · answer #10 · answered by littleluvkitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋