What the **** is wrong with her , a 13 yr old can not afford a baby and she can also die. And for her to put that in the little girld mind is plain wrong she said "13 yr olds can make decisions too" they can hardly wash their own damn clothes. Yo she is really trippin How old is she. Can ya'll feel me?
2006-06-06 09:31:20 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous16 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Yeah, I feel ya.
That is one of the stupidest things that I have ever heard in my life!
A thirteen year old is still very much a child herself. How on earth is she going to gather the emotional, financial and psychological resources needed to care for a baby?
Some thirteen year olds aren't even old enough to BABYSIT, let alone bring another human life into the world!
Some thirteen year olds may be having sex (I think that is MUCH too young!) but that does NOT mean in any way that they are ready to be parents! In fact, that is why they should NOT be having sex!
The only decisions thirteen year old girls ought to be making is what clothes they like, what kind of music they want to listen to, and what they want for lunch!
2006-06-06 09:37:25 · answer #1 · answered by zen 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I am 13 and I have a mind of mine own think having a baby at that age could have to much pressure on the brain causing u to become a vegatable and also what the he** u goin to do to support that baby u cant even get a job at that age me personally i kno people who have had babys at a young age there family supports them and understands but it causes u to grow up real quickly see my aunt told me dont think about sex and all dis stuff cuz what u going to be worryin about at that age hanging out at the mall or doin da nasty lol so howeva told somegirl some crazy mess like dat must be immature a child herself cuz any grown person would tell u live ur childhood well and dis and dat
2006-06-06 16:58:58 · answer #2 · answered by goofygrul 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know but...she is right that 13 year olds can make decisions to. I wouldn't have personally said it would be okay though. I mean the girl is just a baby herself and she doesn't need one. And to be honest that isn't one of the decisions they should be aloud to make but then again we are living in a society where there's people younger than that having sex.
2006-06-06 16:36:50 · answer #3 · answered by Sarah Beth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly what you mean? A 13 year old can not afford to have a baby right now b/c it will be mainly the parents supporting it? She cant even get a job yet.
2006-06-06 17:18:37 · answer #4 · answered by coyotes0486 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, that is insane.
If your school or local health clinic offers it, she should try one of those "automated" baby dolls.
They cry and won't stop 'til you comfort them (at ALL times of day and night), have to be changed regularly, fed, etc. One weekend with that, and it will change anyone's mind who doesn't know what parenting is all about.
A baby is WORK. A toddler is WORK. A pre-schooler is WORK. An adolescent is WORK. A teen is... oh, I don't even want to go there.
Anyone feelin' me on that one? ;)
2006-06-06 16:49:51 · answer #5 · answered by CigarMe 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's wrong.....13 yr olds can't even take care of themselves half the time how the heck are they going take care of a baby
2006-06-06 16:37:50 · answer #6 · answered by NessaR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm with you.
For that matter, most teens and 20-somethings aren't mature or responsible enough to handle being a parent.
I'm WAY older than that, and its a tough job.
I love being a parent, but it is a full-time occupation.
2006-06-06 16:53:58 · answer #7 · answered by docscholl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe because she is just a girl herself, no one in their right mind could seriously tell a 13 year old to have a baby and think it is right.
2006-06-06 16:34:11 · answer #8 · answered by misswannano 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel ya. definately 13 is too young. i remember when i was 13 there was a pregnant girl (who was also 13) and the dad was 17!!!!!! holy crap!
2006-06-06 16:38:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
*raises hand* I totally agree. Well said :)
2006-06-06 16:59:01 · answer #10 · answered by Wild Rose 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋