my husband had a friend in college that he talked about and to a lot. he lied about her all the time and wouldnt even admit that he had a crush on her or anything. she's kind of short, blonde, foreign, and really thin. i caught him in so many lies that its hard for me to beleive him when he says he hasnt talked to her.
is he lying just so i wont get upset that he's talking to her or is he lying because he likes her and doesnt know what to do?
i'm 28 - we've been married for almost 4 years, and have been together for 11 years.
2006-06-06 09:27:05 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It could be a little of both. Does it really matter why he's lying ? He's lying.....end of story. If he knows it bothers you for him to have this friend then he should have been willing to stop talking with her. Can a guy have a friend ? Yeah I guess he can but if you cant be friends with her too then its a problem.
2006-06-06 09:31:46 · answer #1 · answered by JustMe 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes a guy can have a girl friend. You said it all . You've been together for 11 years, if he didn't want to be with you, if have have choosen her, but he didn't. Unless you have more proof, I would relax and see what happens. I know it's hard to trust someone who has lied to you, but marriage is of trust, so give a go. I wish you the best.
2006-06-06 10:16:15 · answer #2 · answered by doglady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if he's already slept with her. If he has, the thrill of the chase is gone. If guys want friends, they'll hang out with other guys.
If a guy has a friend who is a girl and he says he doesn't want to sleep with her...he's lying.
2006-06-06 09:31:52 · answer #3 · answered by Splitters 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, a guy can have a friend who is a woman. If he does though, he doesn't have to lie about it. If he's lying though, that sucks.
2006-06-06 09:31:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋