like they are pregnant by accident.
maybe
"congratulations?"
"i'm sorry?"
hahahha
2006-06-06 09:20:03 · 13 answers · asked by marcus_aurelius 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I had the guts one time to do that. They felt awkward around me afterwards. I wouldn't reccomend it unless they were your best friends or something, because even if it's a popular thing to have extra marital sex, it's still has it's consequences, and they are in for it now~!
2006-06-06 09:23:02 · answer #1 · answered by Suzy Suzee Sue 6 · 5⤊ 2⤋
I think the best thing to say is congratulations. I am in this situation right now (I'm the pregnant one) and the last thing we want to hear is laughing or apologies. Even if it's an accident, if the relationship is strong then all good things (a wedding) will come with time
2006-06-06 16:25:00 · answer #2 · answered by gulia_j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am not married and i am 11 weeks pregant i am 25 and was told i could never have kids my boyfriend is thrilled and so am i we plan to get married after the baby is born but we don t see the rush and when asked and only his family has asked we say we dont know when were getting married i have not had one bad respons so far i think it has nothing to do with being married it has to do with how good of parents they will be so my answer is to say congrats because even if they were married doesnt mean there any happier
2006-06-06 19:14:47 · answer #3 · answered by cassiekittielovely 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats wonderful news..Really no-one has a right to judge them just because they got pregnant out of wedlock..
We have friends who are not married and just had their first baby..Thats all they got asked..When are you getting married..I think it made her feel as though she wasnt as "good" and that she was looked down upon...Come on, we dont live in the 60's,70's no more..Its freedom people..
2006-06-06 16:33:17 · answer #4 · answered by ♥♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congratulations, when's the wedding date?
2006-06-06 16:22:21 · answer #5 · answered by j_911_rhoads 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Congratulations, and don't worry about the ignorant people who will give you a hard time because of their religious bigotry. Just ignore them and be happy for yourselves! Having a baby is truly a life changing event, so be positive and it will be positive. "
2006-06-06 16:25:09 · answer #6 · answered by barter256 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say, "Congratulations". Most of us start out as "accidents" anyway. You don't say, "I'm sorry" until they ask you to babysit. ;0)
2006-06-06 16:28:18 · answer #7 · answered by 4kidsmama 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good Luck to the both of you
2006-06-06 16:24:04 · answer #8 · answered by EarthStar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are the circumstances? Are they happy, if so just say Congrads, other wise don't say anything at all.
2006-06-06 16:23:15 · answer #9 · answered by jaysboobie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
congrats!!! me and my husband had 3 kids before we finally got married
2006-06-06 16:28:29 · answer #10 · answered by Laura 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋