My cousin/good friend and i made plans to go out after work while i was visiting my parents. She said i could leave some clothes in her car to change into. I did but we never met up. I asked her to drop them off at my parents house (so they could send them to my apartment). SHe keep stalling and when she finally dropped them off my earings were missing.
I called her and asked if she found a pair & she said no. Later i was looking a photos online of her out at a bar wearing my earings! I called her & confronted her & she said we must have the same pair and she'll check her jewelry box & she's sure she'll have 2 pairs. (this is possible since they are from Claire's, a cheap chain store).
Should i just let it go? I don't care if she borrowed them but i feel like she tried to steal them. Or she could be telling the truth. Im really upset since we're close. What should i do without jepordizing our friendship?
2006-06-06 09:15:52 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
im not upset about the $10 earings, im upset about the possible lying and stealing from me.
2006-06-06 09:21:56 · update #1
I hear ya. I got into a huge fight over fruity pebbles it's not the product it's the meaning. You need to ask before you take. Has she got back to you if she has two pairs or not? It's really hard on this situation cuz you kinda have to prove that their yours and not hers as she says. I think your friendship should be worth more than that, if you can't find out the absolute truth, and just be more careful with your stuff. Hope this helps
2006-06-06 09:30:00 · answer #1 · answered by sexzbich 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Speaking out of expirence....when a friend lies to you it hurts..lets just say my best friend was messingg around with my bf....but now we dont talk or anything so...if you can talk iy out with her and let her know how you feel...and make sure she understands where you come from...things should work themselfs out. If it isnt a big deal and this is the first thing that has happened like this you should be able to let it go. If it starts to happen reguraly (cant spell) and she continues to lie or steal from you (if thats what happened) you may have to forfit part of your relationship, unless she means more to you and you can forgive and forget everything (but thats really hard)
2006-06-06 16:22:10 · answer #2 · answered by Summer S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do would talk to her, if you are as close as you say she'll be able to have a chat with you. And it already seems like you have the right idea... you two will have to talk it over. But there's no reason why you can no longer be friends.
2006-06-06 16:20:08 · answer #3 · answered by mxdylan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl just go out and buy another pair,just don't leave nothing else.Your friendship is worth more than some earrings.
2006-06-06 16:23:30 · answer #4 · answered by Dorothy R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you're that close just forget about that rings!! I think u shouldn't have even called her and asked about it!!!
try 2 forget it and trust her! even if she is lying forgive her! don't loose a friend coz of a simple ring!
2006-06-06 16:52:39 · answer #5 · answered by elle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just buy new ones .well did u ever see her wearing those earings if u did then its fine .just buy the same ones
2006-06-06 16:20:09 · answer #6 · answered by Cesar G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should let her go she could have and is lying if you do not trust her she should not be a part of your life.
2006-06-06 16:46:56 · answer #7 · answered by Kelly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do the same with something she doesn't have then if you see pics or catch her wearing it call her out
2006-06-06 16:19:36 · answer #8 · answered by Joe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it's chep i think you sould go buy antoher pair
2006-06-06 16:18:52 · answer #9 · answered by vampy vampierqueen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her go
2006-06-06 16:22:29 · answer #10 · answered by shny_daniels 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋