plez help me!!!!!!(a best answer will be awarded)?

Question

ok im 14 and I know this kid who used to be my friend but I dont like him cuz he annoys me and brags about himself more than anything. I was takin a nap cuz I didnt get to bed until 2am and he came to get me and my bro said I was taking a nap and he(annoying kid) came up to my room and pounded and shouted through the door to wake up and I didnt answer cuz I was half asleep and anyway he did that for a while then charged at my door trying to break it down and he couldnt so he did his shouting and pounding again and I still didnt answer cuz I was half asleep and wanted him to go away. so then he got a screw driver and tricked the lock and came in and shouted in my face to get up and I jumped and was freaked and really pissed at him. Then he started going around my room critisizing my stuff saying "i have better" and then he was reading my emails and he was reading ones from my gf and I took it away from him cuz they are private. Any way I finally made the excuse I had homework so he said

he said come and get me as soon as your done and he left. I feel like I dont have any privacy and he annoys me so much! his sister takes piano lessons from my parents and that is my parents job so I cant cuss him out or they will lose a student and so much money a year. I really need to do something cuz he is really annoying me. any ideas?

BTW he is always like this and he brags alot about himself about how good he is at stuff and he is better and I dont say anything but truth is he sucks at stuff and not to brag but I beat him at the stuff and he still thinks he is better. he is a immature little 11 year old brat! OH and my sister saw him doing the stuff about the door and stuff and was laughing and cheering him on. she is 10.

the door was locked

the door was locked

Answer 1

Point to the ceiling to get him to look up and kick him real hard in the nuts. He won't bother you again.

Answer 2

Uh if this is a true story...and I have actually known people almost like this (The hinge part seems odd)

Anyway the kid is got some serious serious serious problems and he will lie/steal/cheat from you. No joke. These people will try and do anything to bring you down and make themselves feel better. These people also do not change. I am old to you - 29 - and I still know people like this...they never ever grew up and they blame the world for their problems - it must be the world they say since they are so perfect. These are also the people that did jail time and/or so many drugs they can't hold a job and live off other people. You almost think it is a joke when people tell you this at your age (I did all through high school) but it's so true.

You could tell him point blank you don't want to be his friend but you need to be prepared for the serious outrage that will follow. If you can stay cool for it and not react he will see you are serious and walk away. All he wants is a reaction to you. If he cannot make you miserable and control you he has no use for you. He may say mean stuff later but the drama in your life will be a lot easier to handle in the long run.

If you can not bring yourself to tell him to buzz off then ignore him...even the stupidest people get this one eventually. I would tell your family that you don't want to hang with the kid and not to let him in the house or pass you the phone. Again there will be outrage and confrontations...you could use one to tell him that you are done with his drama and don't wanna hang out anymore.

Good luck.

EDIT:

Saw the part about the piano lessons...they are teaching her not him does he really have to be there? Tell your parents about the door. If they are normal enough they should get pissed and tell hhis parents that his presence distracts from sister's lesons. Also you can still tell him you don't wanna hang out...let him have a hissy fit. Let him sit in another room and have a hissy fit. Once you tell him you are done with him he is not your problem. This kid has serious issues probably all from his parents as it is and I bet his parents could care less if he has a problem with you so I doubt they would stop sending his sister to your parents. The key too is being first. Tell your parents first. Let them take about the door to his parents first. The person who brings something up first always has more leverage.

Answer 3

dnt be summisive cuz hell be more and more agressive towards u....what he did is enough, so next time he do something as abusive as this episode ull get up look up on his eyes and as fast as a cobra, u grab him by his neck against a wall,trying to choke him, but knowing that u wont, and u tell him really quiet, but really but with a convincing attitude that next time, he even come one meter close to u or ur house u break his neck like a chicken....look at his eyes with lots of "u understand right" hell be freak, and will c u different and stop the crap...but if u let him continue with what his doing there be a real break point that will be real, and u might end up doing something that u might regret and either way ur parents will loose that student/so stop it now in a very calculated way, while u can still control urself and him/
GOOD LUCK , with the little brat abusive bully

Answer 4

First of all, I know I'm not a guy but I'm gonna answer anyways. It really depends on the type of guy. But yeah a lot of guys like innocent girls, and some like dumb girls who pretend the have a brain of a 5 yr old. But most guys aren't usually attracted to the type of girl who "pretends" to be dumb and innocent for an actual relationship since I could understand that they would easily get bored with that kind of girl since she acts like she doesn't know anything. And the guys ur talking about probably only give her that kind of attention when she's around becuz they know they can easily use her and then dump her. Sooo yeah

Answer 5

Tell him to stay out of your life, and I would put your lock on the inside of the door. Tell your parents. They may not want to keep him as a student. You could also sue him for damage of property for your door. He doesn't deserve all he has. Don't you hate it when the meanest people get the best stuff?

Answer 6

sorry to hear all this..... rofl, it is not funny I know, not to you, but I am at the age stuff like this is kinda funny to me... that is part of growing up my friend...... learning how to deal with different kinds of ppl..... but, you will have to learn to look at the funny side of a lot of things during your life time, laugh or always cry, or be mad your choice..... anyway, you need to just tell the dude to back off..... let him know you like him but that you are just NOT suited as friends, because he is just a little to pushy for your taste...... you don't have to get ugly, just firm and stick by your words..... I admit it is a sticky situation because of your parents and his sister.. so try to keep your cool .... if ya want you can just sorta set up boundaries for him... rules if ya will....... tell him when you are in your bed room you don't want to be disturbed by ANY ONE !!!! put up a NO tress passing sign or DO NOT ENTER... tell him when those are on the door is means just what they say, and inform your parents and brother of the new and improved you... and tell your parents why of course, but maybe not the brother.... rofl, brothers can be a real pain......... God bless

Answer 7

Just tell him that you don't like his behavior. It's ok to tell him that you don't want to be friends with him without cussing him out or being rude. Just say you don't really feel you have much in common with him, and that you don't want him coming over to your house to see you. If he is there because of his sister, he needs to be respectful of your privacy. Tell your parents you don't want him coming upstairs to your room. His behavior was extremely rude, and destructive. Let your brother know the guy isn't allowed upstairs as well; you don't have to let him in. Also, stand up for yourself and tell him that his behavior was unacceptable.

Answer 8

just avoid him he will get the hint and block your door next time or put a chain lock on it that will keep him out. Then no arguements so your parents wont suffer. If it does not help, sit your parents down and tell them the truth. Your parents will understand better anyway if you just tell them.

Answer 9

Maybe have a little conference with your parents and ask what ways they would think it would be appropriate to deal with it. It's responsible and considerate of you to consider them, and so they should be curtious to help you. I say, lock the doors when they are closed and you don't want anybody in.

Answer 10

If he wants to be "under your skin" that much, give him a double dose of it. Go to places you know he don't like. and when he tries to balk, guilt him into it. When you are out with him, if he orders fries; help yourself to them. He has a drink, pop the lid off and pour some into yours. If he says something bring up what he does and say if it is OK and you should not trip, then he shouldn't trip about you. And go over to HIS house and get into everything. Maybe he will see he don't like it and knock his mess off.

Answer 11

Ignore this monster kid. His sister has nothing to do with you and the "monster". Tell monster if he ever comes into your locked room again, you will personally beat his butt, when your done, tell him not to ever do what he had done again. This should help the matter out. Good luck