Is there something wrong with me if agreed to share my new boyfriend with his old girlfriend. He asked me to be his girl even though he is still with his other girlfriend and I want him so bad I said yes,and Im not jealous at all of her, does that mean my feelings for him are not real and does it mean he has feelings for both of us.
2006-06-06 08:58:19 · 20 answers · asked by miranda 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Im not a kid first of all Im 25 years old
2006-06-06 09:03:46 · update #1
dont be a hater oldguy
2006-06-06 09:06:28 · update #2
I think that you deserve better than that. Hes probably feeling like a stud with two women while you are there freting about it. Lose him and find an ever better guy who wants only you!
2006-06-06 09:20:09 · answer #1 · answered by lovelyone707 1 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Triangle
A triangle relationship seldom works. In your case I would get out of the relationship as fast as possible. I would tell the boy that I would wait for his decision for some time and that I would love to be with him, but I can't under the circumstances.
He has to make up his mind or would be using the two of you girls. You deserve a whole man, not half a man!
A woman made it a good rule in her life at an early age, never to get involved when the man is not free. She would wait a while until the decision was made, or move on. She saved herself a lot of heart break! Some men enjoy being served by two girls.
Example
A married man with two children had a girl friend. He bought her a condo but determined who she could see. He bought her clothing ad alcoholic drinks, but left her alone most of the time. She became an alcoholic. She wanted to marry him, but he said that he has to stay in his marriage until his children were older. When he had a fight with his wife, he stayed with her over night. When he did not get along with her, he moved back home. This was a pattern of many years! Not much fun!
What is not the "all-yes-man" is a no man. All yes means that one can live with his short comings without being offended by them, since nobody is perfect.
The choice is yours, choose wisely!
All the best,
cordially, India.Magica
2006-06-06 16:12:00 · answer #2 · answered by india.magica 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it sounds like you do not think much of yourself! You deserve to be someones one and ONLY! Not to be shared with anyone! If he does not love you enough for you to be his one and only then you have got to get over him. There are other guys out there who will treat you like a princess and you deserve that! You only live once and if you do not look out for yourself then and go for the best in life then no one else will! Tell him how you feel about him and what you want and if he can't be your one and only then see ya buddy! Good luck!
2006-06-06 16:06:13 · answer #3 · answered by rttamez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know I believe that is something knew because someone close to me does that and I have a friend in Houston that does that too. Which was kind of weird at first but what ever makes them happy (by that I mean all three).
2006-06-06 16:07:10 · answer #4 · answered by florie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It just means you are a little on the kinky side. If you can live with it then there won' t be a problem. You know what is next? He will ask both of you to his bed at once. Now you know.
2006-06-06 16:01:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends...If you are in grade school or middle school, who cares. If you are older than that, you should know better. If you have to ask this question, you already know the answer - NO!! He is using you both and you need to not take that crap from him. Regardleass of your feelings for him, you deserve more respect than that
2006-06-06 16:05:45 · answer #6 · answered by bbunny0212 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you are putting your self down. Plus that is not right. Don't let a guy abuse of your innocence he is just playing with you. You are a weak person you need to be stronger and value your self.
2006-06-06 16:01:44 · answer #7 · answered by Adri 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You Poor kid.. get rid of him, you deserve better.. Wait 25 yrs old hahaha you deserve it then.. Dummy
2006-06-06 16:01:19 · answer #8 · answered by redsoxwchamps 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you really need counseling, I don't think you're that hung up on him, and sounds like he's found a couple of great bed partners...best of luck. Enjoy, I don't think it'll last long.
2006-06-06 16:02:06 · answer #9 · answered by theoldguy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well that's all fine well and good................................if you are in 2nd grade. no it is not ok nor safe (STD's) to "share" a boyfriend with someone else. you need and deserve someone of your very own who will care about just you. let the other girl have him and move on. time heals all i promise.
2006-06-06 16:01:30 · answer #10 · answered by amyclay350 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋