i have red spots on my butt & vagaina. all over,am sceared cause i cant go to a dr. he can find am not virgin!

Question

please help !!! i had them since over 3 weeks!!!

Answer 1

Ummmmmmm if you don't go to the doctor, you are highly unlikely to ever get laid again.

Answer 2

It sounds like an outer yeast infection. Take some acidolphilis, you can get it in chewable form from the pharmacy. And but yeast infection cream on it several times a day and avoid sex 100% until it is gone. Also eat lots of yogurt if you can stand that nasty stuff..lol

You should not be afraid to visit your dr. he would have to inspect inside of you to know your not a virgin, and drs really could care less.. They are also not allowed to discuss that kind of thing with your parents without your permission as well..

There is a pill for yeast infections he can give you, it's 1 pill and that is all.. And it works like a charm, thank god!

Answer 3

Your problem might just be a skin condition similar to acne, I have it on the backs of my arms and my thighs; if this is the case, then you have nothing to worry about, other than how it looks. You can get rid of them by just scrubbing with a loofa every day in the shower. I do suggest that you go to a doctor though, just in case you have a venereal disease.

Even if your doctor was able to find out that you're not a virgin, all information between you and your doctor is confindential, so your parents won't find out unless you want to share that information with them.

Answer 4

The signs and symptoms of STD's include:
In women, itching around the vagina and/or discharge from the vagina.

Reoccurring or severe vaginal yeast infections. Yeast infections are characterized by white milky discharge, a foul odor, and itching.

Bleeding from the vagina, other than menstration ("your period").

Discharge from the penis.

Pain during sex, when urinating and/or in the pelvic area or abdomen.

Sore throats in people who have had oral sex.

Pain in the anus for people who have had anal sex.

Painless red sores on the genital area, anus, tongue and/or throat.

A scaly rash on the palms of your hands and the soles of your feet.

Dark urine, loose, light-colored stools, and yellow eyes and skin.

Small blisters that turn into scabs on the genital area.

Swollen glands, fever and body aches.

Unusual infections, unexplained fatigue, night sweats and weight loss.

Soft, flesh-colored warts around the genital area.
Keep in mind that sometimes there may be no outward signs of STD's. For that reason, safer sex methods (condoms) should always be used. If you have any of these signs or symptoms or think you may have been exposed to a sexually transmitted disease, make an appointment to see your doctor or visit your local health department for an evaluation.

Answer 5

LOL what is the difference if you are a virgin or not...go to the doctor and get checked out. And if you don't, and you continue to have sex, you could spread something serious. Sounds to me like you are half the age you claim to be like 12! If you want to run with the big dogs, you got to be able to p!ss in the tall grass. Oh yeah ignorance is someone that isn't smart enough to hit spell check...just an observation

Answer 6

Definitely see a doctor. However, if you are afraid of your parents finding out, look into going to a family planning clinic where they will test you for free. While your family doctor is bound to confidentiality, if you are a minor, you parents still have the right to view your medical records. In the meantime, wash every day with a mild soap, and don't shave the irritated areas.

Answer 7

It could be just a heat rash and if it itches it could be a yeast infection or bacterial infection. Sometimes girls can get jock itch too. If they are like blisters it could be something even worse. If you think you have an STD you should see a doctor. Is there a planned parenthood in your area? They will check you out and I don't think you have to give them your real name. Either way you should get it checked out. You never know and some of the STDs can be pretty serious.

Answer 8

Sam, it doesn't matter how old you are you need to go to some form of clinic, doctor, you may have a STD or it could be something else, but highly unlikely since you have had it for three weeks. You have to deal with the consequences of having sex. Sex is something you do when your an adult so if you are trying to be an adult then you have to act like one and go to the doctors.

Next time you have Sex USE PROTECTION!!!!!!! Take care of yourself if he wont wear a condom then don't have sex with him. The best thing to do is not have sex at all until you are old enough to understand everything that comes with having Sex.

Good-Luck and Take Care of Yourself!!!

Answer 9

The DR will not care about your sexual state, rather if it has caused the problem that you are experiencing and it sounds like they may be related due to your reluctance and seemingly shame about being sexually active. Your health is the most important issue so get over anything holding you back from getting care for you body! Take care of yourself and don't let anything stop you from getting medical attention!

Answer 10

It is important you immediately go to the doctor. I don't think they can tell if you are a virgin or not. You could mess around and not have sex and get an std. Go and get checked out. Te longer you wait the more it will spread. It can even cause more harm as you wait.

Answer 11

You need to go to the doctor. I know for a fact a doctor can not tell anyone about your confidential information. They take a oath, and they can also be sued for giving out anyone's confidential information. You don't want to keep waiting it may be something very serious or nothing at all. But, it is better to be safe than sorry.