I am a straight guy and have no experience in the transgendered community. I'm looking to meet girls in my area, but don't want to offend anyone or humiliate myself. I feel in love with someone years ago and when I found out she was transgendered, we split up. I now realize how immature I was and how much I lost. Long term PASSIONATE relationship is what I'm looking for, not escorts or prostitutes.
Take your shots all you insecure guys. You know you've looked and gotten excited at the beautiful women with more down there than you.
Please help.
Is there etiquette I should know?
Where do I go?
I'm not much for the bar scene,
but I'm willing to give it a go.
2006-06-06 08:48:31 · 6 answers · asked by Cherry Stems 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
The comment to "just date normally" makes sense. However, I am more attracted to transgendered women than genetic women. So, why wouldn't I seek out what I want? I can say that I don't like people that smoke right? So, why can't I search for women with extra equipment. I could just date and date, but that would be like looking for a needle in a.... well, you get the point.
I thought Adultfriendfinder was like a porn/escort type site.
Does anyone know of a good book? or wedsite for guys like me?
2006-06-06 09:33:59 · update #1
The very best place to go is www.urnotalone.com. Click on the "Enter you are not alone" link then click on the "People" link at the top of the page, enter any search criteria such as State and City and click "Search". Apart from location, you also choose other criteria such as sexual preference, category etc. You can also view a picture of each person, read their profile, Email them through the site or speak in the chat room. I have met a ton of my real life friends right here.
Even better, if you can hold your head up high enough to post a full length picture of yourself, you can become a site-member and transgendered people can find you. You will see on the site that thousands of other non-trans people are not afraid to stand up and be counted. I think you are an amazing person to be true to your inner feelings and I wish more people like you would accept the truth that tg's can be just as attractive as any other.
Good luck and I know you will find that special someone...
2006-06-08 05:50:22 · answer #1 · answered by kimposing 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why would you seak out a MtF person in paticular is what you need to ask yourself.....
If it's just out of the fact you feel bad for hurting that one person.... then why not make things up with her?
Other wise just date normaly and not worry about it.....
If your just cuirous and want to learn more do some searches and i'm sure you can find some transgender help communities with lots and lots of information on the subject.
2006-06-06 08:55:18 · answer #2 · answered by CrazyCat 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keep in mind we are all strangers before we become anyone's trusted friend. There are communities that gather to discuss issues that they themselves are dealing with, go to a group meeting and among these strangers a relationship may blossom into love, who knows, that is the best I can do. Here in Ohio we have Stone Wall and they provide information on dates and locations for these meetings. I am confident your patience will pay off!!!
2016-03-15 01:18:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing I could suggest is to go to AdultFriendFinder.com and ask some people in there. You'll be getting your answers from the horses mouth,so to speak. ...but one word of caution,you might get more than you bargained for!
Happy Hunting!!
2006-06-06 09:04:09 · answer #4 · answered by Chief Paduke 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe that's right
2016-07-26 05:20:36 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, Thankss! I was asking myself the same question today
2016-08-22 23:23:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try this place:
2006-06-06 09:16:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋