sometimes i get REALLY mad at my stepdad cause hes soo wierd but i know my mom loves him but hes soooooooo annoying!! i dont know what to do.
2006-06-06 08:35:07 · 8 answers · asked by cc 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sometimes you just have to deal. And "weird" is a matter of opinion. Who knows, you might date someone one day that your mom thinks is really "weird" and you just might love that person.
2006-06-06 08:39:26 · answer #1 · answered by jannabanana 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal to dislike your step-parent. There isn't any wrong with it. He's an intruder into your life. Just remember that you both have something in common. You both care about your mother. Picking fights with him is only going to go badly for everyone. Take stock of your stepfather. Does he treat your mother well? Does he provide for the family? Does he at the least tolerate you? If so count yourself lucky and ignore the rest. You've got no more right to expect him to think, and feel a certain way than he does you.
Note this assumes that he's strange in a mundane annoying way that doesn't involve inappropriate touches, or looks. In which case you need to be talking about this to your mother, family, teachers, and/or church folks (minster/priest/teacher).
2006-06-06 08:55:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget taking the issue up with mom, you gotta take this up with your step dad. I would bet this is his first time being a step parent and as there wasn't a book about you that was handed to your mom the day you were born (meaning: I'm sure you feel she sometimes doesn't understand you) there isn't a book that was handed to him the day he "stepped" into your life. He is only weird cause he isn't your dad, and yes he gives your mom something you will never be able to and that is companionship, love and partnership. He could never love your mom like you do and you could never love your mom like he does. Take this matter up with your step dad in mom's presence, say look I have these feelings about you, and describe those feelings to him, but remember if you say something in a negative manner or use name calling be prepared to get it back. You never know his acts of "weirdness" could be the only way he knows how to reach out to you. Good Luck
2006-06-06 09:05:45 · answer #3 · answered by maxine553 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take it from somebody who knows my mom married my stepdad when i was 8 i'm now almost 23. up until i got married at 19 we didn't get along,but i also didn't get along with my real dad, after some long conversations with the man i now call my dad we are closer than ever,and my daughter doesn't even know her biologalcal grandfather do to he doesn't want anything todo with her either, so just rember this in due time you will learn to love and respect him as a person,and youwilllearn to expect his unual qualties,your mom married him for a reason
2006-06-06 10:52:28 · answer #4 · answered by trblmmmy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your mom about this situation, explain that you know she loves him and you want to see her happy but he annoys you. Work out a solution between the two of you.
2006-06-06 08:39:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pray for 18 to come quickly!
2006-06-06 08:41:08 · answer #6 · answered by Starla_C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just curious, How old where you when he came into the picture?
2006-06-06 08:48:25 · answer #7 · answered by yo_010180 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pop a cap in his a$$
2006-06-13 08:32:41 · answer #8 · answered by Samba Queen 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋