well my best friend in the whole world is a christian and believes in God and that you shouldn't have sex until marriage, but there is this guy and she really likes him, he has already had sex before and he was only 11, he is 3 years older than us and her mom won't even let her see him, how are both of us supposed to handle this when all he does is look at porn sites and is all perverted, while i have to be there for her and tell her that everything happens for a reason? should she see him anyway adn try and teach him what she believes and how he will have to act in order to be with her?
2006-06-06 08:00:58 · 9 answers · asked by u_no_u_luv_me 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Number one thing Girls cannot change guys!!!!!
She can tell him what she expects but then she has to see if he wants to give that to her or not.
Personally I think she should stay as far away from this guy as possible he sounds like major trouble in the making
2006-06-06 08:04:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Believe it or not your "friend" is going to do what she wants. You might have some influence on her but she is going to have to make decisions on her own. The best you can do is support her regardless of what she decides. Sounds like this guy is bad news and doesn't respect her values, Mom has reason to worry and keep her from seeing him. Besides her Mom loves her and only wants whats best for her. Keep reminding her what a great person she is and what a great guy she deserves. Good luck!
2006-06-06 15:04:20 · answer #2 · answered by shae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how your friend feels. I am very religious and the religion that I believe in doesn't allow us to date outside of our religion, or permit us to have sex outside of marriage. When it comes down to it, when you date it is to find the person you are going to marry. So she needs to ask herself since she is dating, is she ready to get married? And if she feels that she is ready, then could she see herself marrying this guy, someone who obviously doesn't share her beliefs? Believe it or not it is a really good thing. It has kept me out of a whole lot of trouble. But it is hard when you care for someone who doesn't share the same values that you do. Your friend needs to take a good step back and examine herself and how she really feels about God and how far she will go to defend her beliefs. God tells us to not become un-evenly yoked (Married) meaning to be with someone who feels the same way you do about God. This is a protection from God to help us to find the right person to spend our lives with. If someone loves God enough to follow His laws then they will be a good mate. Hope this helped.
2006-06-06 15:44:34 · answer #3 · answered by Snow 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably not...you cannot force someone believe the same as you...you can however, tell the person how you feel...if they truly care, they will consider your feelings, if not, you deserve better anyways!! Keep your beliefs, do not give in to some boy that knows how to talk....he's just trying to get in your pants anyways, take it from me...highschool/junior high school boys only want one thing up until...well no, it never really stops....but be strong!! Good luck & god bless
2006-06-06 15:07:42 · answer #4 · answered by spaceyinla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
remember that your parents were your age before and they just might know what they are talking about. I f you are (is) a true believer of god, then put it in his hands. he will help you to make the right decision.
2006-06-06 15:16:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm.. she should let him realize how much she will mean to him if she leaves.
2006-06-06 15:02:09 · answer #6 · answered by ladia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes she shud.he wil react positively
2006-06-06 15:02:14 · answer #7 · answered by sexy me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let it go
2006-06-06 15:03:22 · answer #8 · answered by qazyhoods 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
can anyone say "stream of consciousness"
2006-06-06 15:02:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋