Me and my man have been dating for 4 months, and he is takin' but not giving. And he kinda has just as many negatives as he has possitive. Is it wise to stay with himand try to change his ways or just dump him because I can do better?
2006-06-06 08:00:43 · 11 answers · asked by sweetladye19 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
dump him there is better, men dont change, it will just hurt both of you?
2006-06-06 08:03:12 · answer #1 · answered by trisha m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, take it from me... YOU'LL NEVER CHANGE A MAN! If you think you have to change him... doesn't that mean that he's not the person you are really looking for? Don't change or ask someone to change who they really are... either accept him for who he is, or get the heck outta dodge! The right man is the one that you fall in love with because you love all of his qualities... good and bad.Good Luck!
2006-06-06 15:11:41 · answer #2 · answered by sweet_harmonie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i am not sure if u can do better, but i don't think u have the position to change his ways! he's only ur bf, and most likely u will find a new man and it won't matter so just move on and find another guy.
2006-06-06 15:03:18 · answer #3 · answered by Missy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you take a hint? If a person wants more than what he/she gives, what do you think? He better dump you, cause you do not understand.
2006-06-06 15:08:10 · answer #4 · answered by Sam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how you feel about him. Do you feel like you love him? Or is he just a guy you like?
If you love him, try to work it out. If not, dump his *** and find a new one!
2006-06-06 15:02:55 · answer #5 · answered by Jasmine Lily 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you remember only one thing let it be that you can NEVER change anybody. Talk to him and let him know how you feel. If that doesn't fix it then move on.
2006-06-06 15:06:03 · answer #6 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you dont like him than screw him if you have all those bad feelings than drop him dont stay with someone who you dont thik doensnt want to be with you if your having all these thoughts than its best that you move on
2006-06-06 15:04:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its your choose but I would stay with him to see if he will change his ways!
2006-06-06 15:02:24 · answer #8 · answered by Gabby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like to much work !
2006-06-06 15:22:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really need someone else to answer this question for you?
2006-06-06 15:02:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋