how can I support myself and my children financially after leaving an emotionally and mentally abusive spouse?

Question

he gives little or no support and I dont work for much money

Answer 1

Go to a women's resource center or the Salvation Army for assistance. Also talk to Family Services and they can help you with your child care. Plus get you some food stamps and housing along with some bill payment assistance as well. Also, you could also stay with a friend or family for the time being until you're good enough to get back on your feet. I'm sorry I about your situation, God Bless You and your children.

Answer 2

I would definitely get myself a job and ask for child support. The thing about an abuser though is if you are wanting support, he will want to see the children, which ultimately means that he sees you. Are you willing to do that?

Answer 3

move in with your parents if possible so the children can have the extra support system, more hugs and kisses from grandma and grandpa, if not possible, get on welfare ,go through the system to get more education ,finish school and your on your way, my mom raised four kids on her own ,this was her only option I do not know anyone more courageous then my mom!
remember your main focus should be your kids and setting and examples for them, it's easy to go back ,its much more difficult to look forward, but it can be done. good luck , your in my prayers.

Answer 4

You can see the court and get the child support you deserve sweetie.

Answer 5

You will figure it out, day by day. Women leave all the time, in the same situation you are in.

Answer 6

get a different job and take him to court

Answer 7

get a better job