The thing is that I don't want to seem desperate,especially infront of his friends.But I also don't want to ruin my relationship with him.He hung up the phone on me. And I feel really lost and helpless without him coz we've been speaking to each other for like a year now,and at a point we were frens with benefits.How do I make him want to speak to me sooo bad?How do I get him to say that he is sorry?He really should be,cuz infront of his frends he was ignoring me.Like he was embarassed of me.This girl frm his school also said that only a drunk girl wud ever get with him,and that he shudn't be so egotistical.Pple started asking me if I was his ex ,and I was rather upset abt that and wen i confronted him about it,he blamed it on his frend.I didn't know who or what to believe so I ended up losing my temper on him,but it was valid.Wat shdn't have happened was him losing his temper on me. As usual,I have to be the one to get things right again. But he doesn't pik my calls up.What to do?
2006-06-06 07:17:05 · 20 answers · asked by jd s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
hmmmm.. that kinda happened to me also..
what i think you should do is stop calling him, because then, yes, you will look desperate..
i would suggest "accidentily" running into him at a time in which he's alone.. so that you two can talk.. but if you think he'll ignore you even then, then i think you should text him or something. that way, if he replies back, then you can do something about it, and if he doesn't then i think you should just give it time, and give him the chance to realize how much he misses your friendship.
One of my friends was also ignoring me in front of his friends, so i decided to ignore him, and each day he would try multiple times to get me to talk to him-- ignoring works!
Hopefully one of these ways will work-- good luck!
2006-06-06 08:10:47 · answer #1 · answered by orange juice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-30 07:51:34 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey get ur facts straight babe. U got wild at this guy, u shouted at him for reasons u thought rite, this guy shouts back at u & stops ans. ur phones now u want him to say sorry coz. u desperately want to talk to him???? This chap is egotistical eh? Well wot about u? u dont sound any less egoistic ur self either.If u really want to befriend him again i suggest u pack up ur ego,get a common friend to put the facts before him & pray that things turn out right.dont forget a small misunderstanding & more so a BIG ego can mess up relationships real bad.
2006-06-06 08:08:24 · answer #3 · answered by surendra s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I shouldn't judge and compare this guy because I don't know the whole situation. But, I bet your worried what his friends will think because you don't want to embarrass yourself and the guy friend.
Friends with benifits well usually one falls while the other runs.
I knew this guy once and we had lots of misunderstandings and tempers blowing. It seemed to me the only time he was interested was when I wasn't or atleast pretended not to be. Boy would he get mad if he seen me out with another guy. We were only "friends".
I dropped the loser and went on with my life. Again, I shouldn't compare this guy, but I would let go. Why play the games of ignoring him so he will want you. In the end, guess who gets hurt?
2006-06-20 00:17:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find somebody else. He does not appreciate or value you and you are wasting your time with him. For your sake, move on. Friendship and/or a sexual relationship with somebody should not be one in which one person is always trying to make up with the other person without them giving a damn if they do or don't. Find somebody that cares about you as much as you care about them. An uneven relationship is a waste of time. Good luck.
2006-06-18 22:25:04 · answer #5 · answered by WebAnt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
these are diffrent things you could try:
1.if he has an email,if you know it,email him say what you need to say and tell him how you feel about him and don't lose your temper if he emails you bad things or something and not to be rude or anything but i think you should apologyze!!!!!
2.you could try calling him again and when he pics up the phone
imediantly say hi is (say his name) there i really need to talk to him so please don't hang up!! then say what you gotta say!!!
and tell him how you feel about him!!!
3.if you know where he lives go to his house ask him if you could talk to him for just 5 minutes and say what you gotta say and tell him how you feell!!!!
look i really hope you and your freind get reconnected so best of wishes -red-
2006-06-20 05:49:00 · answer #6 · answered by red 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him and tell him your feelings. Guys have to have things like this spelled out quite bluntly. Maybe he doesn't know. Or maybe he was embarrassed because he noticed he was being a jerk and not sure how to say sorry. Don't lose a friendship because of "it's not my fault" or "he started it" or your FOOLISH pride. Hope I helped.
2006-06-19 17:39:47 · answer #7 · answered by k m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't pick up your calls then u need 2 find a time when it is only u and him. If he starts to walk away, follow him. He'll be erritated and he will stop walking and talk.
2006-06-06 07:35:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him alone, and he will call you when he feels the need to talk too you. All the details why he has not been in the mood for your conversation lately
2006-06-20 06:03:34 · answer #9 · answered by kendo2_2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about going over to his house,or send him a card .
2006-06-20 03:58:56 · answer #10 · answered by Male Sicilian Trauma Nurse 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋