I have been through many things in my 32 years of life. The Death of my son ,I beleive was the worst so far. But If I could go back and change any day I wouldnt save his life , knowing he would have to suffer with a heart defect ...for the rest of his life. He would have to of under went numerus sergeries and would of been in alot of pain..So I myself need to think about the answer to my question a little more...check back in I will have an answer....
2006-06-06 07:14:44 · 7 answers · asked by codysunfinishedlife 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I would change the day my friend died and the day that my mom had an anuerysm burst and a stroke. I would choose to have none of this happen and for my mom to have gotten checked out on that day instead and for my friend to have decided to not ride his motorcycle that day.
2006-06-06 07:17:56 · answer #1 · answered by Truth Hurts 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sara, you too, have been hurt a lot in your life, and suffered for 32 years. I , too, lost a son, back years ago, and I wouldn't change that either, although it breaks my heart that he died. If I could change one day in my life, it would be July 10, 1970, the day I married his sorry Mama....then there never would have beeen a son to lose. We mourn together, you and I....and thousands more...Good Luck in your life. You're young, and some better days are headed your way!
2006-06-06 14:24:32 · answer #2 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not have been so easily influenced by friends at the age of 12, when it supposedly looked "cool" to smoke. I would definitely take back the day I first tried a cigarette. I'm 27 now and sound like I have TB when I get up in the morning.
2006-06-06 15:12:42 · answer #3 · answered by Shining Ray of Light 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go back to the day my mother called me home from work. I rushed home and my elderly father was throwing up constantly. We went to the local hospital. Within 4 months he was dead, from a hernia operation that they botched. If I could go back and change things to go to another hospital besides the one he chose, I would give 20 years of my life. The loss of my father, made my mother give up on living. She didn't die, but became a bedridden invalid, in a nursing home. I visit her every few days, and bring her candies and whatever little things she asks for. The family home was sold to help cover the exorbitant costs of the nursing home. So, in the space of 2 years, I basically lost my father, my mother and my life-long home. I would give anything to change the day that started it all. Who wouldn't?
2006-06-06 14:23:38 · answer #4 · answered by Quietman40 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a wonderful person and very selfless.
My anwser however, isn't very nice but i would have to say the day i got married. i wish i would have waited and not got married for many reasons.
2006-06-06 14:18:12 · answer #5 · answered by toni h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry to hear about your son, if i cud change on day in my life it would b mi years in high school cause i might not b able to graduate next year
2006-06-06 14:19:12 · answer #6 · answered by GANGSTAKEISHA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am sorry about what happened to you but still God gave a million reasons for us to live...
about your question....if me will change a day in my life? it's gona' be for you, maybe i'll be with you to cheer you up?
smile gilrL! LifE is gOod........you just have to look beyond.
2006-06-06 14:19:26 · answer #7 · answered by guRl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋