Im 16 years old and Ive moved a lot. i didn't really mind since I never liked where we moved to. I moved to my current location almost a year ago and my mom wants to move again. but this time I love it here!! I tried so hard to work out ways that I can stay but it looks like i'm going to lose the battle. I won't give up but its hard because she already got a job somewhere else. She says the problems are paying for two houses and living with my stepdad. HELP!!! Everything I have is here...I dont want to move again!!
2006-06-06 07:06:20 · 3 answers · asked by Glitter G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Write a letter to your mum. I'm sure you tried to talk to her about it, but sometimes letters make a deeper impression on grown ups. Write about your arguments, tell her how much you love it here and why you don't want to leave again. Tell her how important it is for your social life to stay in one place for a while. Is there another adult that can help you? An aunt/uncle, a friend of your mums? Maybe he/she can come and sit down with the two of you, help think of solutions to pay for the two houses (why two houses anyway?). If all else fails you may even want to consider not moving along with your mum but staying where you are, maybe with a friend or family member. Sixteen is a bit young to live away from your parents but its done before and possible. Remember : its your life and you have a say in this too. Best of luck!
2006-06-06 07:15:29 · answer #1 · answered by Kathy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry dear... you are 16 and need a home where things are provided for you.. how do you know that the new place does not offer you even better things than you currently have?
Romans 8: 24- 28 We are saved by trusting. And trusting means looking forward to something we don't yet have. But if we must keep trusting God for something that hasn't happened yet, it teaches us to wait patiently and confidently. In the same way by our faith, the Holy Spirit helps us with our daily problems and in our praying. For we don't even know what we should pray for, nor how to pray as we should; but the Holy Spirit prays for us with such feeling that it cannot be expressed in words. And the Father who knows all hearts, knows of coarse, what the Spirit is saying, as He pleas for us in harmony with God's own will. And we know that all that happens to us is working for our good if we love God and are fitting into His plans.
2006-06-06 14:12:38 · answer #2 · answered by Life Coach 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay with a friend get a job and then you will be able to stay.
2006-06-06 14:13:42 · answer #3 · answered by akiastatz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋