If a girl has been sexually molested as a child and as a result hasn't had sex since is she a virgin?

Answer 1

Well, the dictionary version of the word "virgin" is a person who has not had sexual intercourse.

But I think in this case, considering that it happened to a child, the child should be reassured that they didn't do anything wrong and that even though someone touched them inappropriately, it doesn't mean that they aren't a virgin anymore. They can decide when they are no longer a virgin (when they get older and are ready to have a meaningful relationship). Molestation is a VERY difficult situation and should be treated with concern and compassion for the child.

There are some good healing websites out there on this subject and I would highly encourage you to seek professional counseling if you have personally experienced this or you are close to someone who has.

Answer 2

Technically, yes. If your considering being a virgin because of the hymen, not every woman has one. She may be born without one or during vigorous exercise, she may break it and not even know it. Your not a virgin when you consentually (willingly) have sex. If you were molested, then it wasn't willing. So, technically, yes, the girl is still a virgin, even though the penis penetrated the vagina, it still wasn't willing. I hope this helped. :)

Answer 3

If she has been penetrated vaginally by a penis then by definition she is not a virgin. However, I would still consider her a virgin when it comes to a relationship. It is horrible that people go through that kind of pain.

Answer 4

It's all based n perception. Depends on wether you want to count non-consentual sex or not. If I had been raped or whatever before having sex with a boyfreind, I'd have still counted myself a virgin, but other girls may not. It's up to you how to take it.

Answer 5

Technically, no, but if she wants to call herself a virgin and think of herself as a virgin, she can do that. I would. She should know that in God's eyes, she is still pure. I hope she will stay that way until she is married and that sex will be a good experience for her once she is married.

Answer 6

i do no longer think of your unlucky sexual abuse interior the previous has affected you, atleast no longer by technique of who you're drawn to. definitely it sounds such as you're bisexual. i replaced into waiting which you would be able to have intimacy matters or something, because of the fact those are the simple indicators of somebody plagued by submit hectic rigidity from sexual abuse. definitely, i'd decide for it including your pal, if it feels stunning do merely it. Wait till she comes back, and notice how the two one in all you act.

Answer 7

I heard that if you've gone without for over 7 years you can be classified as a virgin, but I don't know if that's true or not.

Answer 8

Psychologically the answer to this one would be yes,but physiologically the girl woud no longer be "intacta".However with todays lifestyle very few girls are,even if they haven't had sexual intercourse.So then the psychological reality is the only reality worth considering.Which brings me back to ...Yes.

Answer 9

I would say you are a virgin, because you didn't want to do that, you were forced into it. But I am sorry that you had to experience that, that isn't a good thing at all...

Answer 10

your stuff does not grow back after 7 years.....lol

you were not giving yourself to someone no matter what you are a virginphysical things do not matter, that is technical and does not matter. when you give yourself freely to someone then you are no longer a virgin. so do not let that poerson take one thing from you. they have taken way too much from you already, this is your special gift for you to give someone, your and yours alone and no matter who what where or when you will only be the one who will give it freely, no matter what they can never EVER take that from you.......remember this..always......