2006-06-06 06:45:18 · 19 answers · asked by Sarah B 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I am sure that she already realizes the mistakes she has made and now she has to pay the consequences. You should be there to support her and help her through this difficult time in her life, i am sure that she will appreciate that more than your criticism.
2006-06-06 06:50:11 · answer #1 · answered by pdanielleh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she knows how bad it is, but you need to make her tell her parents. or at least YOU should tell YOUR parents and let them help her. being Pregnant is scary she probley doesn't know whats gunna happen to her body or anything. instead of putting her down help her. there was a 14 year old girl in my church and she got pregnant and instead of being cruel to her, the whole church got together and helped her. she ended up giving the baby up for adoption and now is a very active member of the church, she talks to the kids about not having sex. so this doesnt have to be negative. Love her help her and give her Support. Good Luck
2006-06-06 09:21:43 · answer #2 · answered by fandj4ever 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi sarah!
Lets see, I know a girl who had her first baby when she was 15 years old and she was scared to death. I think you need to tell your cousin about childbirth so that she won't be as scared. She needs an understanding person right now. She made a big decision and she has to deal with it, but she shouldn't have to deal with it all alone. She needs family more than anything right now. Tell her.
2006-06-06 07:26:09 · answer #3 · answered by tricksy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi sarah,
i would like to tell you that at such age a female cannot simply give birth to a child and even if she does then it would have some complications and in any case she must really know what kind of compromises she has to give if she has a child when she is a child herself.giving birth to a child is not the end infact one has to be sure of their responsibilities!!in my opinion just dont do it. just have fun you will have a second chance.just tell her she may understand.
2006-06-06 08:05:48 · answer #4 · answered by pallavi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't tell her. If she doesn't already know, she will soon. Give her love and support. Being a mom is stressful and there is always a risk of post partum depression. When the time comes I would greatly stress the importance of not repeating this error.
2006-06-06 06:49:38 · answer #5 · answered by pjt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sarah...
I am not sure for this, but I can give you a good advice. Consult an expert immediately and dont count on anonymous ppl's opinions. Maybe they have something good to say - but what you need is the opinion of an expert!
2006-06-06 06:49:10 · answer #6 · answered by Pambos K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 13, she does not have the maturity to tend a baby. Try referring to counsellors.
2006-06-06 06:49:04 · answer #7 · answered by Ireadalot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say just support her and keep loving her. She probably already feels guilty enough and knows that it wasn't a good thing to do.
2006-06-06 06:48:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No maybe if you let her find out on her own then she will think twice about having unprotected sex at such a young age
2006-06-06 07:58:08 · answer #9 · answered by green_eyes_323_02 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Support is good. Expert is better. Her BODY is not physically mature enough for that ordeal.
2006-06-06 06:50:47 · answer #10 · answered by reynwater 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋