well I have a broken heart... I just relized that relacionship that I had for 4 years (on and of) was finally over... I still love him, but I cant be with him and I can not be his friend... is there a cure?
2006-06-06 06:23:27 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
2) I had the same thing happen to me, except that we were only together nine months & then he dumped me without even giving me a reason. I think he was scared of getting to close, because then he tried to come back a few months later. Too bad for him! It does not mean that I was completely over him, but my theory is that if it did not work the first time, it is not going to work the second time. He broke a trust & for me that is the most important thing in a relationship.
It took me five years to get over him completely! Then it was just because I met someone even better.
I know it is a cliche, but time does heal all wounds---but finder a new love helps it along faster!
2006-06-06 06:31:03 · answer #1 · answered by Selkie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, 4 years is not something you will forget.So, until you can accept him as a person and not an ex, all you can do is distance yourself and allow your heart time to heal.Be prepared for al those rotten feelings that make a broken heart so hard to handle, but take the time to come to terms with why it didn't work (without blaming yourself or him), then when you are ready, try developing a friendship. When you do that you know you'll be ok and there will be room to truly find Mr. Right.
2006-06-06 13:31:03 · answer #2 · answered by jjessiem35 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to hear that you've broken up.
No, time is really the only thing that will really help you forget, but they're are other things that will help on a lesser level, and they are the good ol' standbys in my book.
1.) Your friends. Always there to help you.
2.) Lots of ice cream. Always a cheery treat.
3.) Movies and music. Always a good temporary escape.
4.) When you're ready, after some time, when you feel upto it again, a new boyfriend can help (if you get the right type of guy) chase your blues away.
2006-06-06 13:34:21 · answer #3 · answered by Microsoft Bob 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I have been in a similar situation...and the only thing that can heal a broken heart is time...and I had to learn that the hard way. But if you really still love him try talking to him and if he wont listen you dont need him...
2006-06-06 13:30:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this sounds lame, but only giving it time will help. You might never forget him completely. I have someone who has haunted my thoughts for more years than I care to count. A lot of times now the thoughts can make me happy, if they are memories of good times we had together. Other times, when the thoughts are bad, they make me remember why we are not together.
2006-06-06 13:27:38 · answer #5 · answered by curious 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've been there before and all u can do is to do a lot of reading, i mean storybooks, answer more questions on yahoo answers, visit ur girlfriends everyday, go out with them and have fun, go shopping and meet other people, pamper urself too by improving on ur looks and make urself happy girl, its not the end of the world.
2006-06-06 13:35:54 · answer #6 · answered by pOOhPhAT 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get another boyfriend that is better looking or sweeter than yr ex. change your style , fulfill your day with different activities and burn all the things that remind u of him. let the time pass and u`ll see he doesn`t deserve yr energy and u deserve a better guy :) hold on , it will pass
2006-06-06 13:28:31 · answer #7 · answered by Crucifixio 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can relate and what I do is.....try to forget about everything that happened. Even though I can't I try. I try to have fun with other boys
2006-06-06 13:55:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's no cure sweety love is always in the air it's like a chain....aomon gil you'll get use to it
2006-06-06 13:29:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
STOP SUFFOCATING your self with heart pain ....Feel your self with joy ....Move on with the success of the future...
2006-06-06 14:11:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋