I have a friend that treats me like dirt but I stay her friend........
2006-06-06 06:23:05 · 20 answers · asked by McRach 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
My advice is that you DON'T become one. Why sink to that level?
Why not tell you friend what you are seeing in her behavior and talk about it? If she won't talk about it, she isn't acting like a friend in my opinion.
The solution to b*tch behavior is NOT to become one yourself. That solves nothing at all. It may make you feel good, briefly, but
it costs you a lot. In my opinion, it costs way too much.
Best of luck!
2006-06-06 06:30:30 · answer #1 · answered by Carbon-based 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
To become a b*tch, you have to pretend that you're hot first. Then, you have to talk about people behind their back. Then, you have to show a complete disregard for your elders and run your mouth non-stop. Then, you have to tell that girlfriend of yours she's a queer and leave and find another friend because you're pathetic.
2006-06-06 13:28:25 · answer #2 · answered by Shane S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't need to become a b*tch, you just need to learn to stand up for yourself and how to say 'no'. there's nothing wrong wtih that, it's called 'assertiveness' and 'self-esteem'. keep reminding yourself that you'er worth much more than she thinks you are, and you deserve better than she treats you. tell youself that every day, every time she dumps on you. soon, you'll start moving away from her, and finding people who appreciate YOU.
2006-06-06 13:36:03 · answer #3 · answered by Deek 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women are always being accused of being a B if they are self assertive, and don't giggle when someone is offensive. Just stand up for yourself or cut people off who mistreat you- speak your mind... really what do you have to lose, just a jerky friend.
2006-06-06 13:28:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if this is the case you deserve much better. friends don't treat each other like dirt. find new friends.
2006-06-06 13:29:18 · answer #5 · answered by mumtaz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well try ignoring her for a couple of days
and blow her off a couple of days
and when shes talking pretend your not listening
maybe flirt with her boyfriend or her crush a little
tell people about an uncomfertable situtation ( not an embaressing one just show her who u r)
talk to ur mom
my friend used to make fun of me
she would call me fat
but i started to say **** back like well at least i have boobs or something like that
good luck
2006-06-06 13:32:38 · answer #6 · answered by lil_dawglova 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay married to a loser for 25 years and raise his 5 ungrateful children. That'll do it!
2006-06-06 13:26:02 · answer #7 · answered by answers999 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start ignoring her or tell her off. You don't have to be a ***** just don't let people walk all over you and take advantage of you. Let people that you won't put up with any foolish or bs.
2006-06-06 13:27:00 · answer #8 · answered by gentlgodis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably makes you do her many favors....a) keep that way, and one day she asks you to do a very important one, just say yes and don't do it, or ruin it... b) simply say "hum... no, I have more important things to do, hun".. c) if she starts making fun of you in public, just make a comment about something she doesn't the world to know (i.e. her secret crush, or something awful she did in her past), and simply say "oops, hehe sorry"... that will teach her you're not her carpet.
2006-06-06 13:30:49 · answer #9 · answered by ma_isa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kill her with kindness-show her what a friend is-maybe she will learn to value what you bring to the friendship-maybe she wont but dont let her actions change the person you want to be-lots of love keep the peace old hippie
2006-06-06 13:27:44 · answer #10 · answered by bergice 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋