why do my friends think im stupid when im not?

Question

seriously, im a very intellegent person! not to be full of myself but my friends are just laughing at me for no reason

Answer 1

Perhaps your issue lies in the way you communicate with your peers.

Remember too that groups often have an "Omega Dog" just like they have an Alpha, this person's place is to be the one that gets picked on and if you don't know who it is in your group, it is probably you!

You should talk to the alpha about this, let him know how you feel and that you are tired of feeling picked on. If that doesn't work, maybe you can introduce a new, dumber friend.

Answer 2

One of the easiest mistakes people make is to judge each other by appearance. Your friends might have a mental idea of a smart person, and you don't look that way. Big mistake, but it happens.

They may laugh at your ideas because your intelligence intimidates them. So they may laugh to make you feel less smart, and hope that they look smarter than you. A bit competitive, perhaps.

Look at comedians. Several of them seem really smart, AND people laugh at them, too. You can be both smart and funny.

Answer 3

What do you mean when you say for no reason? Have you noticed any particular pattern. For example they laugh at you when you comment about something in particular? What makes you think that the fact that they laugh means that they think you are stupid? Could they be laughing (not necessarily at you)for any other reason?

Answer 4

Why would your friends laugh at you for no reason? Are you sure they are your fiends? Anyway people tend to target the weak maybe it's your lack of confidence. I know I'm not stupid and if someone were laughing I would laugh with them.

Answer 5

Tanner glided by ability of the window to get tanner. As in tanner by ability of the sunlight. There are 50 states. 50-seventy 5 is F to C. perchance strengthen your grades, learn, and show them incorrect. every person is wise, yet some chosen to objective and a few do no longer. And no remember what you're a individual and your "acquaintances" should not be making relaxing of you. :)

Answer 6

Its because they do not understand you. Average people tend to attack and criticize what they do not understand as being foolish or offensive. Strangely enough those same people who think you are stupid now are the same people who will call on you when they get into a bind. And when they beg for your help, thats when you can say, "I am not so stupid NOW am I?"

Answer 7

Maybe it's all about your social age?
Social and Biological age are different things. Maybe they just care about "eleventeen" magazine when you think about reading some serious book or making some money. Maybe your social age is bigger then theirs and they don't understand...You know people tend to fear what they don't understand and then some unexpected reactions can appear. My advice is to follow your goals, know your place and worth and new friends will come.

Answer 8

People who are close to us often do not appreciate our talents and abilities, especially if they have known us for a long time-they still think of us as the less mature, less sophistocated person they knew when you met. Also, it's more comfortable for them to think of you as either equal, or inferior-it makes them feel better about themselves.

Answer 9

Sounds like maybe you should get some new friends!! A true friend wouldn't treat you that way! Good luck sweetie, and have a nice day:)

Answer 10

same here and im a genius ahgain not to be full of myself. i would just laugh along or stand up and be like "STOP or else u guys won't be my freinds anymore"