the other day my girlfriend & i got in a fight, physically (i got some cuts from it, and a little for her too) while we were fighting i started to kiss her when i threw her down and i would hump her while i slapped her. it was some new feeling we BOTH loved. she told me she liked it, and now thats my fantasy with her. does ne one else own beating as a 4play?
2006-06-06 06:06:24 · 15 answers · asked by Metal 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
thanks for all of yalls replys, alot better than the previous ones ive gotten, some of u should try it, maybe not as rough as i do it sometimes, some ppl really cant take fighting
2006-06-06 06:30:57 · update #1
Fighting is an aphrodisiac for some people.
If you and your girlfriend both like it I say go for it.
As long as you dont get hurt too bad.
2006-06-06 06:10:47 · answer #1 · answered by rainmagg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be careful, that could go to far way to wuckly, there should be no physical interaction during a fight, and you both need to have a safe word so that if one isnt into it they have an out. Dont hurt her to bad!
2006-06-06 06:10:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you two are totally okay with it, and i mean...totally okay (neither one of you has a history of abuse, or assault etc, this is not going to trigger some sort of flash back) then it is okay. Use a code word though, definately. And make sure you talk about what is okay and what is not okay, you dont want to do something to her that you thought was okay that really hurt her, and have it backfire in your face somehow. Be careful!
2006-06-06 06:24:19 · answer #3 · answered by skajunky_22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest that if no one is getting seriously hurt by this play..that it is okay to do. But, you two should come up with a code word that means "stop right now it hurts". If that word is used..then all bets are off.
2006-06-06 06:10:07 · answer #4 · answered by Toolooroo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldn't ever do this... too intense for me. but i will say that there's a sex scene in History of Violence that I absolutely love. I'll stick to living vicariously through that! but if you both love doing it, go for it... just be careful not to hurt each other -that's a mood killer. :)
2006-06-06 06:11:28 · answer #5 · answered by t1g8h81 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, not beating but I like to wrestle with my guy...He pins me down, I kick and roll then pin him down--and on and on we go. We both like it--not only is it fun but a great way to get into shape.
2006-06-06 06:10:29 · answer #6 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish my husband would rough me up a little before sex! It is SUCH a turn on! You go!
2006-06-06 06:16:12 · answer #7 · answered by ice_queen2427 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i personally think that its cool i mean when me and my husband would argue we would make the most passionate love at that time it seemed to be so good and mean so much more than usual. i say good job and continue on with it
2006-06-06 06:32:48 · answer #8 · answered by yideopen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well sounds like something i would love to try without all the beating
2006-06-06 06:11:22 · answer #9 · answered by ♥*♥Bahamian Gal♥*♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm....i think I could definitely get into it. But I like a lot of weird things.
2006-06-06 06:10:30 · answer #10 · answered by cup_o_shina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋