first, he hid from me since october. i recently found out about it (last week) and he would talk to other girls on my space more than 4 times daily. telling them they are hot, and so forth, he also claimed he was single. we have been together for 4 yrs and i confronted him. i said that i felt bad cause he lied to me and because he doesnt compliment me but he can compliment other girls. he stopped and erased the comments but i dunno, it still bothers me. should i give it time? he hasnt gone on for 2 days now. and we have spent a lot more time together. it seems like this brought us closer together. i guess what doesnt break you only makes you stronger.
2006-06-06 06:06:00 · 7 answers · asked by BeAuTiFuL 6 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Give it time. I read on your other question that you gave him an ultimatum and he followed through with that. Give him time too to make sure he doesn't go back to it. You need to deal with these feelings of being bothered or they will eat at you. Find something about him that is positive to focus on instead of the negative past. If he goes back on his word though I'd dump him in a heartbeat! Like you said in your other question IF HE DOES IT ONCE SHAME ON HIM AND IF HE DOES IT TWICE SHAME ON YOU! One last thought ( a favorite quote of mine) A successful marriage/relationship requires one to fall in love with the same person over and over again.
2006-06-06 06:17:10 · answer #1 · answered by pottersclay70 6 · 2⤊ 2⤋
First of all you shouldnt feel bad about anything....He shouldn't also be hiding and talking to other girls on the net. It is disrespectful to YOU. Just because its been only 2 days, doesnt mean he wont do it again. Just be careful, it may seem innocent, but if he has to hide it from you, I wouldnt trust him. If it isnt a big deal to him he should be open about it with you. I knowhow it is with the compliment thing...my bf does the same thing. Good luck sweetie
2006-06-06 13:11:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah...um...you need a new boyfriend! Someone who's not going to try and hook up with other girls. He doesn't respect you, if he did, he wouldn't be doing this to you! It hurts...but let him go! There are better guys out there for you. Plus, I bet he comes running back, crying...telling you how much he misses you when you do let him go. 4 yrs is long....he is "used" to your presence but doesn't respect it.
2006-06-06 13:20:06 · answer #3 · answered by highroller 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd doubt him if he flirts with other. If he stopped then it's good but f not, I'd give him ultimatum and if he doesnt care, I'd end the realtionship. Who needs jerks who treats women like trash.
2006-06-06 13:10:02 · answer #4 · answered by *♥£öVe§♥* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I tell you what, if I was in your shoes I would dump him faster than the wind blows, he ain't got any bussiness on my space when he has got you, if he don't want to pay you any attention find someone who will.
2006-06-06 13:12:06 · answer #5 · answered by Iron Rider 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it matter your age older people are lesss likley to change as i have learned but if he cant you should find a loyal man (im single)
2006-06-06 13:11:02 · answer #6 · answered by kobe8518403 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHAT EVER U FEEL IS RIGHT....THEN DO IT.....SINCE HE STOPED U SHOULD FORGIVE HIM.....AND TELL HIM TO ERASE THE ACCOUNT FROM HIS MY SPACE.....AND NEVER GO THERE AGAIN IF U ARE MORE IMPORTANT TO HIM.......
2006-06-06 13:11:24 · answer #7 · answered by Irusya-Marusya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋