She is your girlfriend, right? You are not married to her, Right? It then becomes a matter of she does not have to answer to you what she does. She is NOT cheating on you because you are not married to one another. If you therefore don't like it because she is having sex with someone else then I would suggest you leave her and go find someone else that may do the same thing to you again. It is not a matter of forgiveness because you are not married. You do not have the right as long as you are only her boyfriend to control her habits or desires. Even if you are married you still have no right to control her. You young people need to learn that you each have your lives seperate until there is a commitment made.
2006-06-06 05:59:15
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answered by pinelake302 6
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Dump her immediately. A woman cheating on you has only one meaning, she is done with you. She has lost every last shred of respect for you and a relationship with her is basically impossible. Keep her around for sex, if you want, but immediately start dating other women and shut off all contact at the first sign she is starting to be a pain in the ***. Under no circumstances allow her to live with you in any capacity. Also, resist all attempts by her to re-establish the relationship. The consquences of allowing her back in your life will be quite severe if you wussy out.
2006-06-06 05:57:32
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answered by Anonymous
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My advice would be to send her down the road. If she's cheating on you after only 3 years, what's gonna happen in 6 years or ten years? I was the same situation several years ago, and we split up and went our separate ways. I still think about her and miss her, but she went on to be a semi-celebrity, and I would have held her back. So I think in the long run, things wouldn't have worked out anyways, just prolonged a bad situation. JMHO
2006-06-06 05:56:28
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answered by lugnutz59 5
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you should forgive her because that's the right thing to do and you'll be a better person for it, but you should probably dump her also if she's cheating on you - who's to say she won't do it again if she thinks she sees a better offer and thinks she can get away with it?
2006-06-06 05:52:59
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answered by D Law 2
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Yes you have to forgive her if you see in her that is repented for what she did.Give her another chans and see what she will do now with this last chans.
Bye
2006-06-06 05:53:38
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answered by eva.hit 1
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You can no longer trust her. End the relationship and move on.. She is cheating for a reason and perhaps she is not happy with you anymore.
2006-06-06 05:50:55
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answered by Jersey Girl 7
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get yourself a needle and Cotton sew up her saddle bags and then give a stiff talking to up the back passage for a week or two then dump the b*tch you will soon forget her but it will be a long time before she forgets you
2006-06-06 05:55:12
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answered by Bertie the mod 2
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Forgive and then **** her sister or her best friend or better yet just dump the ***** she destroyed your trust.Sometimes the ladies can't be trusted.
2006-06-06 05:52:03
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answered by roburo2002 5
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Uh... no! Did she apologize? Did she say she would never do it again? How many times? If it was more than once she can't blame it on spur of the moment...
2006-06-06 05:51:46
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answered by Anonymous
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LEAVE HER!!!!!!!!! sounds like you are my "friends" boyfriend....she cheated on him with several guys and he took her back gave her a diamond and she is back to her cheating ways again......she just THINKS she is being careful about it
2006-06-06 05:57:57
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answered by McRach 3
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