Hello
I have been with my girlfriend for 5 years. I dont believe in sex before marriage which baffles her but its my belief so she respects that. Anyway, a miracle has happened. She has fallen pregnant. I asked how this could be as we havent had sex and she told me this sometimes happens. Apparently when two people love each other SO much like us two do, love energy sparks between the two people and a baby is formed. I never even knew this could happen, i feel so honoured to have concieved this way. I am assamed to admit this but i didnt believe her at first. I got a second opinion tho and he confirmed this. He is a very close friend of mine and my wifes and she and him spend lots of time together so i know he wouldnt lie to me. My question is tho, do love energy pregnancies progress in the same way as sex pregnancies? I would ask our doctors but my wife has banned me from discussing this as she says we are so lucky to have a love pregnancy that we should keep it to ourselves.
2006-06-06 05:43:59 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
I married her halfway through writing the question. i have my laptop at the church. When i started writing she was my girlfriend, then we were pronounced man and wife, then i finished off my question and had to call her my wife!
2006-06-06 05:52:06 · update #1
your girlfriend of 5 years should let you have your way with her if she's now your wife who bans you from discussing this with your doctor... yes, you two are VERY lucky
2006-06-12 03:04:27 · answer #1 · answered by mary_not_cathy 7 · 9⤊ 0⤋
Honey, there's only one way a woman can get pregnant. Depending on your belief system, maybe two - but it sounds like your wife has not had any angelic visitations...
There is no such thing as a love conception. A baby is only conceived when sexual intercouse occurs. The conclusion is that your girlfriend has been having sex. Since you're not having sex with her, that means that someone else is.
Here's the part that confuses me - you've discussed your wife AND your girlfriend. You have both? Not good...interesting that adultry is ok and sex before marriage is not... Perhaps since your girlfriend became pregnant you've married her - I'll give you the benefit of the doubt there.
Your wife/girlfriend has banned you from discussing this with a anyone because anyone with a brain in their head will tell you that she's cheating on you - frankly, I suspect the very close friend of yours who has confirmed this insane theory of a love conception.
There's no shame in not believing her - she's lying.
2006-06-06 05:52:41 · answer #2 · answered by Jinx U 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the biggest load of crap I've ever heard in my entire life. You have to be joking...there is no way that you actually believe this is there? There is NO way...do you hear me NO WAY...that you can get pregnent unless you have sex, or you are the virgin mary and in that case I still don't think it's yours. Don't you think it's a little odd that you can't talk to the doctor about it? It's not possible...she slept with someone else (probably the friend that told you this was a possible situation) You ARE NOT THE BABY'S FATHER. You need to get out of this unhealthy relationship now and find a girl that will respect your beliefs and keep her pants on.
2006-06-06 05:50:30 · answer #3 · answered by andijo420 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you started out saying "... girlfriend...",then near the end you said "...wife...". which is is she? it really doesn't matter.after the baby is born have a DNA test done.don't be surprised if your close friend is the father.she is banning you from asking a DR, because she is a LIAR when she says you are the father. oops, just saw last part.still have DNA test done.when you find the child is not yours get an annulment.you 2 were married under false pretenses.before getting married you should have asked the minister, right in front of her, if what she said was true.then you could have walked out of the church before you made a very bad mistake by marrying the LIAR.
2006-06-06 05:59:10 · answer #4 · answered by chapes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ROFLMFAO!
Thanks for the best chuckle I've had all week...
A new Messiah from another Immaculate Conception - it's a MIRACLE I tell ya!
Oh, and edited to add: You call her your girlfriend in the first sentence, and then add later that your "wife" has forbidden you from talking about this...
If you're going to post such a stupid post in the first place, at *least* get your "relationships" right...Uh, durrr, if she's your *wife* as you say in the last part, then the whole "we're not havnig sex" thing makes no sense. Doofus.
2006-06-06 05:45:51 · answer #5 · answered by tagi_65 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um, I think, in fact I'm sure that you forgot your meds this morning.
PS: Just for a laugh, I checked back hoping to find witty answers to your ridiculous "dilemma". But based on how serious most answers are, I'd say that you're being taken seriously! Bizarre. Anyway I agree with the guy who said that you should use your talent more lucratively. Though I wouldn't say it's wasted here, I got a big laugh when I read about your girlfriend's "love based pregnancy"!
2006-06-06 05:51:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no such thing. I'm guessing that ur friend, and ur wife got together, because u weren't providing ur gf with physical love, and they weren't responsible, and she got pregnant, and so she made up this story and got him to go along with it. Sorry dude, she cheated on u, and got knocked up. Ur a good guy, especially for ur beliefs, u should get a divorce and go find someone who'll truly respect ur morals and values, and then...marry HER, instead of the girl ur with.
2006-06-06 05:49:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It cant be i love my girlfriend so much even u cant belief how i love her one day i broke someones legs Caz he touch her in u know she love me too why didn't she get pregnant.I'm sorry but ur gf over jumped u and have sex if she didn't why she don't wont to go to a doc.there is nothing like love energy makes a girl pregnant does energy have sperms.
2006-06-06 05:56:18 · answer #8 · answered by I am sex lover 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congratulations
2006-06-06 05:55:28 · answer #9 · answered by legna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LoL! Obviously most of the other answerers did not read your other posts. You are very funny. I liked the one about the bleeding anus. LoL! Don't waste your talent here - You will have a good career if you work with the Daily Show by Jon Stewart team:
http://www.comedycentral.com/shows/the_daily_show/index.jhtml
2006-06-06 05:55:46 · answer #10 · answered by Little Bhishma 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are joking, right? If not, I 've got news for you. I would bet the farm that your "close friend" who confirmed this possibilty is the father of the baby! Or it's all a huge practical joke. Do yourself a favor--don't tell the media about it quite yet...
2006-06-06 05:48:06 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋