why is it some people want a friend but only on there terms or conditional reasons this applies to the ladies as well as the gentlemen your there for there good times and bad but when you need them there always to busy for you but your suppose to drop anything when your online to be there for them
2006-06-06 05:27:56 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I believe the operative word here is "Friend". Always on their terms----or you terms? In a true friendship, no ONE person controls the relationship. Control and manipulation are signs of selfishness and self-centeredness. There is no room for either in a true friendship.
I doubt, very seriously, that people who only meet "online" are the type of friends who "are there when you need them." Friends who know you, everything about you, who can look you in the face and tell whether or not you're lying---or who can tell by the sound of your voice whether you're confused, frustrated, happy, sad, etc. That kind of friendship is grown like a sensitive plant. Friendship takes time, trust, honor, integrity, truth, and real contact.
Why should someone online, someone you never see, worry about whether or not you're disappointed in them? Get out of the house---meet some people---start being a friend, and you will start building friendships. But friendships, like any long-term, serious, loving relationship, takes time, effort, and real eye-to-eye contact once in a while!
2006-06-06 05:34:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You call this guy a 'pal' yet you're not to any extent further appearing like a pal. If he's gay, he's gay. that doesn't recommend there is something incorrect with him. you need to carry out slightly study on what number animals attempt to make with different animals of the same gender. in case you don't love it, then he advantages more suitable desirable acquaintances. He got here out to you because he trusts you and needs your help. if you're not in any respect that prone, then make it sparkling to him that you're uncomfortable about it and could not in any respect sense that way about him, yet do not in basic terms call him a freak. He ought to also keep in mind that no longer each and everyone is pleased with the conception of gay people yet and not in any respect to flaunt it in the front of you (even with the very shown actuality that many ought to argue by assessment, he should be allowed to act how he needs in the front of who he needs, yet in case you concentration on someone a pal you need to understand their emotions, no matter how...'diverse' they are). understand each and every others emotions, understand you both have diverse reviews and go away it at that.
2016-12-06 10:32:55 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
isn't all friendship conditional? I mean we can say that we love each other unconditionally but that is way to unreasonable as human beings It is impossible for human to have unconditional relationships.
2006-06-06 05:32:17 · answer #3 · answered by Enigma 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HUH??? I'm thinking you may need some REAL friends that aren't on the internet, like ones you can hang out with!!!
2006-06-06 05:32:06 · answer #4 · answered by star 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cause they are losers!!! Go out into real life looking for friends, you cant be true friend in a virtual realationship!
2006-06-06 05:31:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess people are immuature, iam not looking for new friends, i don't even know anyone on here. iam looking for some advice, and on my free time i like to give advice.
2006-06-06 05:29:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
life have conditional basis
2006-06-06 05:30:35 · answer #7 · answered by j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cause people want 2 mak new friends but they cant so they do it online.
2006-06-06 05:31:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
cause online are not real relationships...just a convenient way to waste some time.....
2006-06-06 05:30:31 · answer #9 · answered by sstooc2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is human nature my friend...most people are only out for themselves.
2006-06-06 05:29:09 · answer #10 · answered by mick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋