had a baby 2mths prior in april.her son accedently (19yrs old)accedently shot the baby in dec.he was 7mths.my boyfriend was there drinking to.moves home in feb.we good for 3mths.well,i get a phone call from her asking if he was home.i said no ,(he was)she says shes on the way to the hospital to have the baby.i was pissed cuz when he came home he didnt tell me that she was preg.again.now hes ther again,the whole time he was gone i kept telling him to bring the 1st baby home cuz the enviroment is not good,bad part of town,she drinks&does drugs with the 19yr.old then the baby died.this baby is due may 8th and im trying to get him to bring this one home and get full custody of it but he says that he cant take it away from her,im like why the only reason she is having it is to keep you there she dont want it.she would take the other baby to her moms all the time so they could go to bar&drink.how do i get him to understand that the baby is better off with us&dad sole custody in ohio?how hard
2006-06-06 05:23:38 · 9 answers · asked by dreammer 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think the first thing you need to do is get rid of this man. If that is the kind of life he wants to live, let him live it without you. I know it's easy for me to sit here and say that, but do you really deserve a man who is going out and getting someone else pregnant? I understand your concern for the innocent baby, but if there really is a problem in the home contact DCFS and let them deal with it. Do yourself a favor and put some serious thought into just why you are fighting so hard to stay with this man. You deserve better, no woman deserves to be treated like this.
2006-06-06 05:29:41 · answer #1 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
why are you staying with this guy? no trust no relationship. you should tell him you deserve respect. i think you want the baby only so he does not have an excuse to go back to her. she knows the same and will never let you take the baby.
if i were in your shoes, i would leave this guy and start over.
2006-06-06 05:28:17 · answer #2 · answered by missy isa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am so sure that if he was to apply for custody he would recieve it. tell him that if he does not apply that you will call the department of children and family and have the baby taken from her. you need to do this.
2006-06-06 05:27:45 · answer #3 · answered by littleluvkitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to hear this. But you have to let him go, he is not going to stay with you as long as she keep having these babies, you can't convince him otherwise. You have to let him go and let him see the light. MOVE ON, ITS HURTING YOU.
2006-06-06 05:29:17 · answer #4 · answered by J999 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like you need to be rid of him. we have enough idiots like that here in ohio now. do us all a favor and let him stay gone. you be helping your self most of all.
2006-06-06 05:36:30 · answer #5 · answered by waljac6108 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is something that he has to learn to realize on his own. Remember that this baby isn't yours. It's not your responsibility to take care of him/her.
2006-06-06 05:27:17 · answer #6 · answered by blackwhitegemini 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never mind her why would want ot be a loser like that!! let her have him !! it's like fighting for a piece of rotten fish!!
2006-06-06 05:29:21 · answer #7 · answered by sstooc2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm... why are you staying with a man who is having babies with another woman??
2006-06-06 05:26:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to leave him and find someone who respects you.
2006-06-06 05:37:46 · answer #9 · answered by scorpio11120 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋