why do men hit there wifes?

Question

my husband hits me and i don't understand what i did to desever it he hit me be for and i hit back but this time i was scard he only hit my face one time but never lift mark he always hits my arms and this last time it lift a mark he was going hit me in my face but i had my sonin my arms so he hit my arm and all i could do was set there i was to scared to move why does this happen to me or any body also why do men hurt there wifes. will it get worst

Answer 1

because they want to be controlling.

Answer 2

You need to take action before it becomes worse and deadly. Most man does not hit their wife at all, if he has an anger problem then he needs to be away from you before he resolve his issue.

Again, man do not hit their wife in marriage. Its always those crazy man with mental-issues that does. You need to get help right away before it escalates to the next level. It might be just bruise and hits, but later on it will be come more life-threatening and you will be in danger too.

You need to go to the hospital to treat your injury, it doesn't matter what kind of injury you have. The hospital will document the incident and you will have it in record.

Tell the nurse or the doctor that this is a result of domestic violence, that your husband hit you and its not the first time it happen. They will most likely contact the authority to come in to take a good look at you and take care of the situation. If they don't contact the police, you need to go to the police youself and seek their help. You must report this to the authority to have some kind of protection from your husband.

No man in their right mind would or should use violence against their spouse, you need to take action immediately. Go to your friend or mother's place and go to hospital right away, its the only thing that will save you and your baby's life.

Answer 3

It is only going to get worse every time he hits you, you need to get of the relationship now, your son needs his mother in his life, next time he hits you I would call the police and have him arrested for an assault. Real men don't hit women. So again get out of it while you still can and have two legs to walk on before he breaks them. Good Luck! Really you should tell someone about this. I am really a concerned person for you and your son.

Answer 4

Amanda,

You need to leave and leave NOW. Don't wait and let your son see this anymore. If you do wait, you run the chance of him killing you, your son or both of you. Your husband is not what I would call a man. No man would EVER hit a woman or a child.

Real men would beat the living snot (I won't curse in this public format) out of him if given the chance.

Call the police and ask them the name of the nearest womens shelter. Please don't delay. Do it NOW. Don't tell him you are leaving, don't tell him anything... just take your son and go. NOW.

Once you are gone, DON'T listen to him when he whines and says he won't ever do it again. Of course he will. The statistics PROOVE that he will if given the chance. Leave now and don't ever look back. You will be doing you and your son a HUGE favor by leaving the jerk.

Answer 5

You need to leave him! Report him to the police! A man should NEVER hit a women. There is no good reason why any man should hit a women. It will not get better staying with him. He is like a time bomb waiting to explode again. Get out of the relationship before you get seriously hurt.

Answer 6

Yes, studies show that it will get worse. If he hit you once, he will keep hitting you. The reason why most men hit their wives or girlfriends are because something is lacking in them and they don't have sense enough to go and get help. Good luck! Get away from here. Don't mean to scare you but there are a lot of women in the morgue because of domestic violence.

Answer 7

Men do not hit their wives. Don't lump those kind of people in with men because we don't like being brought down like that. You need to leave. You are in a very abusive relationship and the next person your jerk of a husband is going to hit is your son. Leave now, ther eare organizations that can help you.

Answer 8

You don't have time to figure out why he is hitting you. You need to leave ASAP!!! One day he might kill you or your son or both. You may love him but you must do what is best for your son and get away from him. He is a coward who is taking out all of his fear and frustration on you. He is not a real man because a real man would NEVER hit a woman. Good Luck Honey! e-mail me if you'd like to talk.

Answer 9

He may have been raised with abuse in his family. He definitely has anger problems and what people are going to tell you....I know they will....and you don't heed the advice, you could be killed and leave your child without a mother. I know men like that don't always hurt their children also (but sometimes they do), you were holding your child. What would have happened if he fell from your arms or got hit himself? Call a women's shelter. You can get shelter information from your State Attoreny's office or just about anywhere. Please LEAVE......

Answer 10

yes, it will get worse. the reason he hits you is because he is a scared little man due to his inability to control anything other than you, and can not find a way to deal with his fear. But do not point this out to him because it will only make him angry at you because he will feel like his has completely lost all control over every aspect of his life. He is lucky I do not know who he is because he would get the shi t kicked out of him.

Answer 11

first put a stop to it right now there are places where you can go for this and none of i love him stuff i dont want him to leave or anything he needs help and fast if not it might get worse you are a person you dont need to get hit or otherwise ok hell you are on the internet find i site now or maybe there is some one out there who can help you but DO IT NOW!!!!!!!!!!!