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2006-06-06 04:08:06 · 28 answers · asked by honeybunchesofoats12345 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Well I know its difficult, my sister got pregnant at 15. I, personally, happily married and can't stay pregnant. But I will not ridicule you because you have enough hardship on your hands. You must think of it as God's way of telling you that you're going to be a mother. You need to put your child before anything else. Now telling your boyfriend may not be the simplest thing to do, but maybe letting your parents know first will help ease the tension. They may be disappointed but they will not love you any less. Maybe have the doctor tell your mom instead of you, it may relieve some pressure. Now once you have that off your chest, telling your boyfriend might be easier. Good luck, I wish you the best :)
2006-06-06 04:14:32 · answer #1 · answered by Cantrelle 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I had a friend who has a niece who was 14 and pregnant with twins two months ago. She waited until she was four months to tell anyone and it didn't go very well. Talk to your parents as soon as possible. They are the most important people in the situation right now. How many months are you and how are you feeling about the situation? It's great to want to tell your boyfriend, do so in the most calmly manner because his reaction is probably going to be extreme. How old is he? Do so as soon as possible though. Don't wait to long.
2006-06-06 11:28:18 · answer #2 · answered by Charlies_Angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My cousin got pregnant at 14... and now after actually having the baby, the grandparents cannot get enough!! The hardest part is having to tell your parents and the father. But after you share it with them and its sunk in, you will have more than enough support. Good Luck with everything. God Bless You
2006-06-06 11:23:27 · answer #3 · answered by britt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit him down and let him know that you have something serious to talk about. Tell him you think you are pregnant and you both need to go to the doctor so you can be tested for sure. And ofcourse you will have to let your family know.. and believe me being an unwed mother myself..it is hard to tell them...my dad was a principal and my mom is a teacher...But they get over the shock...my boyfriend wanted me to have an abortion but I didn't. Oh yeah and I am sure your boyfrind knows that contraception fails...remind him that it is both of your doing
2006-06-06 11:15:57 · answer #4 · answered by dancingwithdeath 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First go take a pregnancy test and if it comes out you are , then tell him you have to talk about something important and to come over so you can show him the results. I hope he is not at least 3 years older than you b/c he can go to jail for sleeping with a minor? Or he is the same age as you.
2006-06-06 11:17:57 · answer #5 · answered by coyotes0486 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm a mom of two children ages 20 and 17. i would want my daughter to come to me, but you must also remember you did not do this alone and you should not have to face this alone. let the boyfriend know first and he should be man enough, even at this young age, to stand up and do what is right. i don't mean marriage. at your age you have a lot of decisions to make and they need to be done with a lot of care and thought. my daughter got pregnant at 17 and we worked it out between us, but she was not alone as she had us, her parents. may i say the man is not around any longer, nor did he stand by her through any of it. so be honest with your parents, yes they will be angry, hurt, and all the rest but in the end honey they will be all you have to stand at your side. good luck.
2006-06-06 11:20:01 · answer #6 · answered by mom2two36037 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fisrt thing i first you hav to know what your decision is if you are keeping it or not and you must weigh the pros and cons. You would loose all freedom that you have and become a social stigma. You loose your education and not to mention the parental figures please note that they will find out sooner or later and they will be upset. As for him once you make your decision and you have a logical reason for it then be straight with him he will freak, run or ask what you are going to do and then discuss with him
2006-06-06 13:07:15 · answer #7 · answered by psychologist is in 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have got to talk to your parents or a counselor (to help you talk to your parents). Then perhaps you, your parents, the BF and his parents will need to get together and talk.
Is the boy also 14? I'm so sorry.. this is really a rough spot to be in.
2006-06-06 11:14:18 · answer #8 · answered by Elizabeth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have bigger problems then telling him. There is not much he can do for you. Tell your parents ASAP. If you are going to have the baby, you need to get pre-natal care. If you decide on abortion, your parents will have to give permission. Be ready for a rough road ahead of you.
2006-06-06 11:16:40 · answer #9 · answered by KathyS 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a home pregnancy test and give him the stick. You should also tell your parents since they will be paying for the prenatal care.
2006-06-06 11:10:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋