If I come home 5 min. late she wont talk to me. parks by my work . i have to prove to her that i love her every day all day
2006-06-06 04:00:41 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
someone hurt her really bad, i feel so sorry for her...i dont think she wants to not trust you but for some reason its stuck in her mind
2006-06-06 04:02:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have a history of cheating? Do you overtly flirt with other women when you're out with your wife? Is she your wife or just your girlfriend? If she's just you girlfriend and you both are living together, then there is no reason why she should think otherwise; you're both still single.
If you want her to feel like she's in a committed relationship, then treat her accordingly. If you are disrespecting her by NOT being married to her but living with her, or if you are an overtly flirtatious person with others while with her, then you deserve the insecure behavior.
2006-06-06 11:03:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you ever cheated on her before or given her a reason to think you cheated that's why. But she sounds like a psycho chic and you probably need to find someone else. Tell her to stop parking by your job and go home and clean the house and cook you some din din.
2006-06-06 11:08:22 · answer #3 · answered by amissybell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems to me like your wife has her own set of issues...She seems to be very insecure...But perhaps by proving her wrong, and demonstrating to her that you're not like other jerks out there..it may help...However it may take time for you to start noticing changes..(and that's if there are any.) If it doesn't work try talking to her and let her know how frustrating it can be to have someone on your back all the time accusing you of doing what you're not doing..and maybe even consider counseling...but however I do wish you GOOD LUCK!!!!
2006-06-06 11:19:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Smother her with affection, call if you will be late, and be happy that she cares enough to park by your work. She's insecure for a reason. If not because of you, then someone else. Once she's secure in your relationship, she'll back off. If she doesn't then break it off. You have to give her a chance. Understand that noone wants to be taken for a fool.
2006-06-06 11:07:42 · answer #5 · answered by Afreida Spydurs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let ,me tell you something about this woman that you're dating. She's insecure and YOU know that right? What you need to do with her is talk to her, let her know that you're not seeing anyone else and stick with it. Take her out, spend more time making her feel loved. She's probably a selfish woman too! You're either going to have to shower her with love, or prepare yourself to be on a reality tv show called Cheaters!!! Just keep working at it if you want to grow with her, if you can't handle the heat, you need to remove from that kitchen. Good luck
2006-06-06 11:05:48 · answer #6 · answered by Blessed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is because she does not have faith on you, I think you might have done something which creates this problem. If you are in right path then clear the situation every time, adjust with her and love her too. Think from their side, she was anxiously waiting for you for a long time but you are not punctual, naturally she became suspicious in nature. Try to make her understand the situation and if it is not possible then go for counselling
2006-06-06 11:11:11 · answer #7 · answered by SWAPAN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, NOT all women think that. Perhaps she was hurt really badly in a previous relationship and unfortunately you're having to pay the price for it.
My question is WHY do you want to be with someone like that? Someone who doesn't trust you and constantly checks up on you and grills you....NOT WORTH IT honey, not at all.
SHE needs help, she has obvious issues and the major one is insecurity.
Good luck
2006-06-06 11:03:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of the time she has been cheated on previously. It's hard to get past that "hes suspect" stage. Even if you have done nothing. But if you have given her reason? You're in for a long ride.
2006-06-06 11:03:45 · answer #9 · answered by okeydokeycroaky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like this girl got walked all over by someone. Baggage in other words. You need to prove yourself to her, otherwise she will think you are just like the jerk who cheated on her.
2006-06-06 11:02:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Welcome to the club. It was your decision to have this life. Marriage is a hard thing for both. After marriage, no woman will let you get laid and get free. You must be punctual home and say I love you punctually for all of your rest life. It's the way of our society is doing.
2006-06-06 11:07:34 · answer #11 · answered by devid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋