He is rich, he doesn't care if i have a bf, he just wants to have me when he needs.I don't know want to do, i am seeking every kind of comfortable living, i want to have money, but...it seems difficult to have that kind of relationship, i've never experienced that.Tell me how
2006-06-06 03:50:57 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Are you using him?
See, he doesn't care that you have a boyfriend because he's hoping to win you over with his money. I bet your boyfriend would care if he knew...I bet your boyfriend would be hurt.
Stop playing with these two men.
Money isn't everything. Figure out who you are most compatible with and go for it.
Realize that when you die, you can't take it (worldy possessions) with you.
I say choose one and ditch the other. If you are staying with your boyfriend, then ditch the rich guy. If you are going for the rich one, be nice and let your boyfriend go (and never call him again, because if you choose another man over him then you don't deserve him).
Btw, Look at Donald Trump and Ivana. Now tell me that money is everything. It's not...you have to have love first.
Sounds like you only like the rich one because he's rich. I think you are making a HUGE mistake. Don't be a gold digger and Don't hurt your boyfriend.
The rich one's only trying to buy your love. I bet he's a jerk if he thinks he can buy people.
When you find the right guy and marry him...you can create your own empire. What you think is 'money' now...probably won't be enough to blink and eye at once you find the man you will marry.
And by the by, if you are screwing around with the rich guy and leading your boyfriend on....you deserve to be treated in a rotten manner.
I feel bad for your boyfriend. How would you feel if he was doing this to you?
Choose wisely. Good luck.
2006-06-06 03:52:16 · answer #1 · answered by Corn_Flake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's something wrong with you when you keep contradicting yourself. I will be truthful & not beat about the bush. Maybe then that will clear up your confusion once and for all. I will apologise first as the truth will hurt. Summing up :-
1) He only wants you for sex. You understand that. It's not love, just sex cos he doesn't care if you have a BF or not.
2) He is rich, and you are seeking every kind of comfortable living, money, etc. You want all these things, and you want him to spend money for you but don't want to ask outright.
3) This kind of relationship you've never experienced. You want to know what to do.
Okay, to be blunt, his arrangement and offer to you is :-
1) a whore on call which he can easily pay for as he's rich. Not one he picks up from a street corner, mind you - but one he chooses from anywhere he likes.
2) It is not a kind of 'relationship'. It is a transaction, a business arrangement, $$ for sex. READ : Whore.
3) He KNOWS you want him to spend money on you & you want all those riches he can offer. Your thinking that you don't want him to think your a 'gold digger' is moot and pointless. He already has that opinion of you girl. Else he won't openly dangle these in front of you and doesn't care if you have a boyfriend. Your ethics & confusion about your ethics are irrelevant to him.
4) When he's tired of using you (& he'll do exactly that), he'll chuck you for the next gal that takes his fancy.
Hell, what's the confusion here? You either choose to be treated like a different kind of whore (& live rich for a period of time which will not last) or not. What do you value more - yourself, your integrity, your soul or the money? Simple as that. I have to blunt here, see if that wakes you up & solves your confusion. Sorry. Now, hopefully, you'll say that you choose not to experience that kind of 'relationship'. Money can't buy back your self-respect.
2006-06-06 11:10:55 · answer #2 · answered by Bugsy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay With Whoever You Feel More Comfortable With. Money Just Brings Greed And Problems Between People. It's Just Material...
2006-06-06 10:55:36 · answer #3 · answered by Can't Make A Good Avatar!!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have a bf and this joker comes along with all of his riches, then you don't need to be in a relationship cause you can't be faithful. You need to break it off with your man and play the field a little longer cause you're obviously not ready for a commitment.
2006-06-06 10:55:22 · answer #4 · answered by SweetPea 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are with him only for the money, it means that you are gonna be a call girl! That is not probably your best dream and purpose in life! Find a nice guy who loves you and values you! Money is nothing compared to happiness and love...!
2006-06-06 10:54:27 · answer #5 · answered by SweetBaby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Treated like a what? You're definately a gold digger if that's the word you were going to use.
2006-06-07 07:36:02 · answer #6 · answered by kissshot85 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When one speaks of sex and $$$ in the same breath, it leads down only one path. One must lack true morals to live under such conditions. Sooner or later it affects every part of your being..........in mostly negative fashion.
2006-06-06 10:55:00 · answer #7 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya sound pretty much like a user. Why don't you try getting yourself a job? Have some self respect.
2006-06-06 10:55:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
jesus, you are a gold digger be happy with what you have you could be living on the streets you know, and jsut choose one already i dont see why you have to ask everyone on here, its common sense. geeesh
2006-06-06 10:53:39 · answer #9 · answered by playfultoyz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shut up...just shut up. You're the kind of girl that gives us ALL a bad name.
2006-06-06 10:54:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋