We are friends and we get along, but I think my daughter is trying to get us together. He has decided to go. He said it wil give him a chance to spend some time with her and he gets to get away. What would you do?
2006-06-06 03:49:27 · 10 answers · asked by unstress38 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
talk to him, when your daughter is not there. be open about it. You say you can get along so this should not be a problem. tell him you don't mind him joining you on the holiday but ask him about his expectations. If he has the same intents as you, you can all go and have a good time. Also talk to your daughter and tell her honestly that you and her father are through, that you wont get back together so she doesnt have her hopes up. just be open and honest with both of them and you will all have a good time.
2006-06-06 03:55:38 · answer #1 · answered by Kathy 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
She invited him before discussing it with you? He has decided to go? Does that mean you already told him he could? If you are going on vacation together and get along and are friends and have a child together why dont you just remarry?
2006-06-06 04:13:52 · answer #2 · answered by Mache 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is precisely any child's dream to have their parents get back together. Is this something mom wants as well???
I feel it would be a large mistake to build up her dream!
This could be the longest vacation for you all.......
2006-06-06 04:08:54 · answer #3 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think twice or thrice. if you are comfortable being with him for the rest of the vacation. vacation is enjoying yourself, relaxing... can you do those things since he'll be with you?
2006-06-06 03:55:02 · answer #4 · answered by labadme 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SURE IF HE HAS HIS OWN ROOM ANYTHING ELSE WOULD SEND THE WRONG SIGNALS TO YOUR DAUGHTER AND YOU KNOW WHAT SHE'S DOING SO DON'T MAKE MATTERS WORST SHE'S NOT IN CHARGE YOU ARE
2006-06-06 03:55:27 · answer #5 · answered by sexyswells42 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be okay as long as you make sure he is going so he can be with her not you ( unless you want him back ). Don't send her mix messages either, be very careful..........
2006-06-06 04:03:08 · answer #6 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he should go he may want to get to know his daughter better.if he wanted you he would be doing what he thinks is romance.
2006-06-06 04:09:08 · answer #7 · answered by Kelly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes u can let him go just explain that u and he will be sleeping seperately . goodluck
2006-06-06 04:37:16 · answer #8 · answered by Mark 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as both adults have their emotion in check, that should be fine.....
2006-06-06 04:08:37 · answer #9 · answered by sstooc2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, you should
2006-06-06 03:55:41 · answer #10 · answered by theone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋