Whats up with dating someone for a while then just disappearing from her life without an explanation?I am not buying the "to keep from hurting her" because I feel its more hurtful to ignore her than telling her the truth or at least a good reason for it..C'mon give us women an answer as to why?If ya can..thanks!
2006-06-06 03:45:34 · 14 answers · asked by *toona* 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Has nothing to do with hurting. It has to do with the direction of the argument. men and women tend to have different angles based on their natural growth within society (i sound like a friggin text book) - Therefore, these arguments become heavily grueling on the guy and induce a heavy rage and feeling of guilt at the same time - and women tend to bring up everything from the past - a major no no - that will set us off like fireworks in chinatown on the 4th of july (a little humor) - try to keep arguments based on current events - if no changes take place, its break up time. We'd much rather you call and end it ;-)
GOOD QUESTION DUDE - you answered mine, I answered yours - feel free to drop a line
2006-06-06 04:21:52 · answer #1 · answered by Q Marc 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He can't read her mind, so when he doesn't feel anything between them, it's very easy to not realize how much she does feel.
When there is no passion there, a confrontation merely creates a high-passion event which is unlikely to have a happy ending (since he's already decided that it's over, anyway.) OTOH, he probably hopes that she isn't much more invested in the relationship than he was, which allows him to hope that a quiet fizzle will also be less painful for her than a blow-up, just as he knows it will be for him.
2006-06-06 03:53:35 · answer #2 · answered by M Huegerich 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some woman are straight crazy being a woman my self why go thru all that DRAMA they (men ) are doing right by walking away. When people get mad they most likely will hit whatever in front of them.Count to ten,Then allow your self to cool off then maybe try to go back and talk it out.
If you define the word confrontation according to dictionary.com it means to the act of confronting or state of being confronted especially a meeting face-to face
2006-06-06 03:58:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To save ourselves from all the explanations. It’s easier that way, because if we say we don’t like you then the next obvious question would be WHY did u go out with me on the first place then?? And that will follow with more " WHY "s...... which is really annoying. And if u think u r not like that , then there are guys ,who are also not like this.
2006-06-06 03:59:13 · answer #4 · answered by C. A 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Some men dont like confrontations, and then there are some women that are crazy.
2006-06-06 03:46:52 · answer #5 · answered by boomerang3que 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is possible.When he was trying to climb on her and she was able to slip down and bite at the proper place.The best method to escape from rape is attacking on testicles.If you are able to squeeze the testicles with your hand and in full force he can can not bear the pain and leave u.All women should be trained in testicle squeeze.It is effective,
2016-03-26 20:57:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Plenty of Girls don't even bother to tell the guy.
Why are women so cold like that?
2006-06-06 03:49:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
some of us guys dont like confrontations, so we just avoid them like they are the plague
2006-06-06 03:48:03 · answer #8 · answered by theone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we men, are like needles, we always look for something to poke, and when the poking gets boring we are sorry, but we have to poke someone else.
2006-06-06 03:53:40 · answer #9 · answered by loaded 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
baby girl, one thing, i hate to see women cry. but usually, i'll see them face to face. so that we both can get on with our lives.
2006-06-06 03:50:23 · answer #10 · answered by harmony 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋