I've been with my boyfriend now for 4 days, but he's really shy. He seems happier since he's been with me, but I don't know how to ask him how he really feels toward me. How would I go about doing that?
2006-06-06 03:05:55 · 28 answers · asked by absilence 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I agree with Crystal. 4 days is a little too fast to be asking him how he feels about you.... Give it more time and if he really likes you he won't let his shyness take over.
2006-06-06 03:10:02 · answer #1 · answered by Laura 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It has only been four days and he is your boyfriend so enjoy the time with him. That kind of question this early in a relationship can have him running the other way. Guys like things simple. You really need to wait on asking him how he feels for a later time like in a month or two and by then he will be a little more open and less shy towards you.
2006-06-06 03:10:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually i would wait a while ... i doubt if it is clear right now to him.. do you know for sure how you feel about him.. 4 days is not very long.. you should take it slow.. make great friends get to know each other real well... jumping into relationships i have learned is the wrong thing to do.. i guess sometimes women can find happiness that way but i have always found that they are on there best behavior when you first get to know them and after you have been with them awhile you may find out they have a real high temper, and can get aggressive...or a number of things...so slow down there.. time will tell i am sure...i do hope if you are having sexual relations with each other you are both trying to avoid later consequences.. like consider birth control, diseases, etc.....
2006-06-06 03:13:19 · answer #3 · answered by sanangel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
4 Days? What are you 12?
2006-06-06 03:10:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What answer, exactly, are you looking for? Do you want him to come out and say he loves you? It's been four days- love takes time and knowing a person. He's still with you, right? That's a pretty good indicator that he doesn't find you or your company repulsive. And if he seems happier with you- that's great. Don't ruin a good thing by demanding that he spill his soul to you- you'll only make him more withdrawn. Give it time! :)
2006-06-06 03:09:56 · answer #5 · answered by runninggirl23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a shy guy I would say give him time, and look at the little things he does for you. Shy people tend to do better in one-on-one situations so getting alone with him may help open him up. Good luck!
2006-06-06 03:09:22 · answer #6 · answered by KC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him, "how do you feel about me?" without any pressure for what his answer should be. If you do ask, you should be willing to accept his answer. Hopefully, he will respect your curiousity and you will respect his answer. How you both handle this and feel over this will be a good indicator if this has the potential to grow and if you both are on the same page or living in totally different dimensions. Good Luck!!!!
2006-06-06 03:25:41 · answer #7 · answered by bob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this may not be the right way for you but in my opinion I would just wait until you two are completely alone like on a date or something and just come out and ask him how he feels about you if he loves you or if he just needs time
2006-06-06 03:13:07 · answer #8 · answered by cherokee_79 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-28 03:42:39 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
isn't it a bit early to ask a guy how he feels after 4 days? give him a little time to realize what's going on and I'm sure he'll loosen up and tell you himself
2006-06-06 03:08:47 · answer #10 · answered by ♥Ani♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋