well i have always believed that if i was straight i would not announce to my parents that fact, so since i am gay there is not reason to "come out", all my friends know but that is just through my actions and relationships, well anyways tell me what u think
2006-06-06 03:05:03 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
The truth always comes out it's up to you how soon.
2006-06-06 03:09:32 · answer #1 · answered by Troy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait for the right time,,,even if you're telling that it may not be necessary to tell them,,,you asking this question now may be an indication that it somehow bothers you...So i think by the time you would be able to tell it to them, then it is only when you can completely free yourself...And why not, you should be gay and proud! I generally love being with gays, very fun loving people.
2006-06-06 10:13:13 · answer #2 · answered by karylle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is. I bet they already have a feeling that you're gay in any case. My boyfriend's sister is lesbian although she hasn't admitted it. We can just see it and we have lots of proof. We accept it but we sometimes hate it because we just want her to be honest with us and tell us. She is leading a very secretive life and avoiding us and its really annoying. Just come out and be honest. Why lie?
2006-06-06 10:09:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if ur over 18 then u do not need to say anything to anyone not even ur parents. even if u did tell, its totally ur choice for being gay, ppl need to respect ut choice :)
2006-06-06 10:08:31 · answer #4 · answered by ~ Helin ~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no,but you should tell them anyway but you must have a very good relationship with them if you do it should be ok but if you don't could be very bad
2006-06-06 10:10:19 · answer #5 · answered by ccjunbg 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them when you are ready. but don't be afraid of you are. If they are your family they should love you no matter what.
2006-06-06 10:08:25 · answer #6 · answered by meggiek97 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its up to you. remember they will still love you even if you told them that you are gay.
2006-06-06 10:08:22 · answer #7 · answered by party_2_hearty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no if anything u should tell them. im sure theyd understand
2006-06-06 10:07:26 · answer #8 · answered by clarissa c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is wrong that your gay!!
2006-06-06 10:08:40 · answer #9 · answered by loaded 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋