I have a male friend that has a very jealous gf. While he was asleep one day she got into his phone an found were we had been textin each other at work!!! No big deal friendly stuff. Well she told him that he had to chose. He said that he didnt think it was fair an he was going to talk to her about it. On sat. he called but we didnt get to talk so on sunday I texted him he said I couldnt anymore. Now he wont even look my way. I am hurt really bad over this, What should I do? Do I just give him up? Or just wait an see if he comes back around?
2006-06-06 02:59:53 · 7 answers · asked by dljtr37 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Wait. Trust me this jealous girl will be out of the picture soon. No one wants a jealous person around them. Bottom line if it is meant for you two to be together in this Universe nothing she or anyone else can do to prevent that! So all her jealousy is wasted energy. be patient and wait okay............wink ')
2006-06-06 03:06:04 · answer #1 · answered by yogishwife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like to me that he is listening to his girlfriend instead of making his own decisions. Nobody wants to be around someone that is jealous, especially when it comes to having a girlfriend. His girlfriend has some trust issues with him so it is up to him to talk to her about that. You could wait and see what happens. True friends last forever and if you want, you could talk to his girlfriend and let her know that you guys are friends-nothing more. Her mind could be put at ease, but it is up to her to decide whether she should trust him or not. This relationship will not last. I can see it now because since she doesn't trust him, he will break up with her. Hang in there but remember: Do what is best for you.
2006-06-06 13:04:53 · answer #2 · answered by Lady S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's listening to and being influenced by his girlfriend at the moment. Why don't you let it go and leave him be for now. Give him a chance to sort out things that are going on with this girlfriend. Remember, you two are friends. He'll make contact when he can. Be there and be his friend. He's going to need you when he gets sick of being manipulated by this girlfriend.
2006-06-06 10:06:46 · answer #3 · answered by curious 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try talking to them both if you can, or maybe just to her. explain that you are just friends and that is as far as the relationship goes. other than that i don't see that you can do a great deal.
2006-06-06 10:08:17 · answer #4 · answered by romariodiko 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u are a true friend,am asking you to stay away and i promise u very soon u will be friends again.if u pressure him and the gal lives him,somehow he will blame you for losing his unstable galfrend.just play cool and watch them fall apart.hello u listerning,
2006-06-06 10:17:14 · answer #5 · answered by lady x 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He made his choice,all you can do is go with the flow.My best friend is a female & I don't turn my back on my friends for anyone.
2006-06-06 10:08:01 · answer #6 · answered by Troy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is just your friend and his girlfriend who he needs to deal with in a different plain demands he stop, my guess is he stopped. move on with it and stop textin him
2006-06-06 10:12:42 · answer #7 · answered by smiths j 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋