I know this my come off a little wrong but im promise im not that kind of guy. Me and my girlfriend have been toghter for 2 years and here is where the confussion comes in. She was in the 6th and i was in the 9th. Im finished high and gone to college she is going to the 9th and no one knows about this but me her her uncle and my three sisters.Do you think we should tell our parents?I havent cheated on her i promise.
2006-06-06 02:54:59 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You may or may not - it really depends on your situation. But openness and honesty bears good fruits. Atleast, you don't have to jog with the situation in the long run. Also, if you are worried about age, it doesn't really matter, and it is actually quite a short a difference. However, since you are older, and she is a bit younger, you have to be aware of your actions and be extra mature - you have to respect her youth and understand her more. There may be things she is only about to learn and if you really love her, you are not going to take advantage of her innocence on some levels. It is good to know that you never cheated on her. And if you ask for my opinion - considering her age, yes, you may need her parent's knowledge about your relationship so as to allow parental guidance - so that her parents may also guide her on this. It's a part of showing your respect to her as a girl and her family. It could also make you more sincere.
2006-06-06 03:03:12 · answer #1 · answered by kia 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The concern here is you obviously know its wrong dating a minor if you didn't then you wouldn't have a problem being open about your relationship. Now that your in college you will see the difference between girls and women. You didn't mention whether you loved your girlfriend either. I would let her live her high school life like a normal teenager and if after she graduates you still have that connection then go for it. But for now let her go and you do your thing.
2006-06-06 03:03:36 · answer #2 · answered by shae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm weren't you lucky !! ( as in u know what would have happened had you got caught) but anyway I think you should but don't expect the parents to just be happy about it unless they know you pretty well. And thing again they will still have the right to be mad cause you 2 have kept this from them.
2006-06-06 03:00:06 · answer #3 · answered by one with no name 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no u should not tell ur parents because they would make u probably brake up. And they would because of her age and how long u have been dating her. the right time to tell the parents is when you have started or when u break up.
2006-06-06 03:22:28 · answer #4 · answered by soccer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes because she is still a minor and in their care if you are a good guy about and go talk to her parents with her they will respect what to have come to do and feel more comfortable with your relationship.
2006-06-06 03:01:07 · answer #5 · answered by Tosha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's see, she's around 14. You're Around 18 or 19. Hey, 5-10 for statutory rape. Sure go for it. Tell everyone.
2006-06-06 03:01:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not the fact that you might have cheated on her, its the age factor. Like it or not they may already now or might not react the way you two want them to. I suggest talking with your sisters or someone to figure that out.
2006-06-06 03:00:10 · answer #7 · answered by blackgirl200220735 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should wait 2 more yrs to tell ur parents
2006-06-06 02:59:23 · answer #8 · answered by Jessica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not if she knows her parents will not approve of it love is love and you should wait untill the right time(or age (lol)) to tell her parents cause they might flip out
2006-06-06 06:51:11 · answer #9 · answered by domo14810 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES tell, her parents, why hide your love
after all it is just around 3 years different, that's nothing in love!!
young love is wonderful~~~~~~~~~~
2006-06-06 02:59:23 · answer #10 · answered by timestamps 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋