I leave countless messages for her at work, at home, on her cell phone, you name it. Before she got engaged, she would find time almost every day to call me and talk. Now that she is engaged I don't seem to matter to her. On top of that, she asked me to be in her wedding party and I am seriously thinking not to do it. Am I wrong to feel hurt by her behavior lately?
2006-06-06 02:38:27 · 4 answers · asked by Kimmy 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I would be offended, too. Even though it is expected for her to be less available, I would still confront her. Say "it bothers me that you hardly ever return my calls. I miss you."
Don't even worry about going to her wedding yet. Let her do that.
2006-06-06 02:43:24 · answer #1 · answered by carobygirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's perfectly normal to be hurt, you think that your loosing a good girlfriend, but you're actually gaining in this situation. Just be cool and invite her to lunch or for a drink and talk to her, maybe she'll open up and tell you what's going on. Think it through before you pounce on her. She may have a lot of stress that she doesn't know how to release. If you two are really friends now you'll be friends forever no matter what. Be there for her, trust me if she marries, she'll need you sooner than later. Be strong!
2006-06-06 10:03:26 · answer #2 · answered by prettyinpink 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is quite rude by not getting back to you at all.. even just a friend, you should return or get back to your friend when they called you.It's easy to just say something if you are too busy. Don't worry about her wedding, if you seriously thinking about it, then talk to her and make sure how she feels about your friendship.
2006-06-06 09:46:13 · answer #3 · answered by eggyaya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are you so much after her??if she has no time then let her go to dogs!and you do not have to think about the wedding as of now.cross the bridge when it comes.
2006-06-06 10:06:29 · answer #4 · answered by mreen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋