I lost the love of my life and I am in total shock and despair isn there such a thing as afterlife?

Answer 1

I'm sure there is. Otherwise it would not make sense for her to go. I lost the love of my life about two years ago. Since then, I strongly believe in it. It helped and still helps me to get over it..

Answer 2

First off, I would like to extend my sympathies. Losing someone you dearly love is a very hard thing to bear. I can imagine what you are going on although not entirely. I did not lose a love one, but the day we separated at the airport made me suffer for more than 3 days without eating - I was looking haggard and crying every now and then. About your question - maybe there is afterlife - there have been theories and stories, however, the ultimate answer to that is not known since no one has really explored what is it like after death.However, all I can tell you is that nothing is wrong in believing. There is nothing to lose if you believe there is an afterlife; but there may be too much to lose when you don't believe when actually, there is. So it is okay to talk to him once in a while if you really can't bear it. That is why people say that you should make the most out of your every day, don't forget to let them know that you love them dearly while you have the chance. Just cry if it will help you. Surely, you have friends to comfort you, and someday, I hopt, you will be able to let him go.Finally, don't forget to pray.

Answer 3

First I want to send you my apologies because of your misfortune, but you need to understand that just because your heart is broken that doesn't mean that you will suffer forever in broken heart limbo.

We all go through it some way or another, but one thing is true is that you don't have to live in darkness because of your loss.
I know that you are hurting but do you want to continue feeling this way forever? Of course not because there is a life out side that hurt you feel right now. In Ecclestes 3:1 It states there it a time for everything in your case there is a time to mourn and then there is a time to live. You can live and get over what you feel right now but simply moving on and live. Don't let this feeling you feel right now stop you from finding new love, or just finding a new friend. That is not how God would have wanted you to live your life and I am sure that is not how you want to live either.

It's time to make this change right now my friend you went through the shock and the dispair and the afterlife you are seeking only comes when you move from your pain you feel right now and go and live. That is where the afterlife begins.

Don't let yourself get sucked up with pain go and live and you will find the peace and the happiness you want Go and trust in yourself and most of all trust in God to help you get through the pain you feel he will comfort you and you will be able to stand up and be happy again.

Please try to do that and you will be fine, That is just the feeling I have you will be fine!

Good luck and God bless and I hope that what I said to you will help you through your journey. :)

Answer 4

At this time it would be difficult to reflect on the question of afterlife. Right now you are looking for some solace, something to cling to. I would suggest that you let go and construct your life again. Easier said than done, you say. Yes, but there is no other way. I know the pain is real and it is difficult to maintain sanity. But any kind of escape from it including belief in afterlife is not going to help. Deal directly with the pain. Letting go would help considerably,

Answer 5

These people are all stupid. Of course there is an afterlife. If you believe in God and you believe God loves you, don't you think that God would want to protect you and keep you forever? When you die, your body dies but your soul lives on forever. Losing the love of your life will be difficult for quite some time but it will slowly pass with time. Just know that your love is being taken care of...possibly better than anyone ever could.

Answer 6

There may be a thing like afterlife. But how would that help you. When we descend on earth we forget everything we knew while in ariel body. So after we are freed from this earthly bondage, we just do not care for the things we loved here, because we become more knowledgeable as not to care for these petty things.

Answer 7

I don't believe in an after life but i believe when the time come you can see you love ones again this the day of judgment. Jesus and God his father will try all and if they are clean enough to move on to the new system which will be a better system because it would be governed by god and Jesus not MAN. Then all will be able to rejoice and live in harmony together, when this day come.

Answer 8

There is such a thing as life after a loss. You'll be fine just give it time you'll see them again one day when the time is right but, no sooner.

Answer 9

People who become hopeless start believing in afterlife. God has given you this life as a valuable gift.Try your best to conceal your sorrows and share others happiness. Life is full of sacrifices , learn to live for others.

Answer 10

Many may have an opinion on the subject. But dont think anyone has lived to tell about it. People fall in and out of love too quickly today. So please go easy on yourself. It is NOT the end of the world. All truly good things take time.