Ok the question is , would you mind expolring sexually with your mate?
Me and my bestfriend were on the phone last night and we were talking about this. I am a lesbian and she is straight. I said that i wouldnt mind watching my partner have sex with someone else and i wouldnt mind having three somes and all of that. She says that she feels as though that can break up a relationship and i said well if you trust your partner and they trust and love you then why would they run off. I mean its just all fun and games its nothing serious i just think that you should be emotionally secure and know that if your love is there with you they are. But she makes a good point too. She says if the sex is better with the other person your partner might run off. and if you are with somebody you are only soppused to be with that person not any other, fun or no fun. She thinks if you let your partner do this they will cheat on you or they already are if you let them have sex in your face.
2006-06-06 02:36:21 · 15 answers · asked by Leany 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
I was watching this show called real sex that comes obn HBO and they were aving something like a sex party where they invite only serious couples to join them and open there minds sexually you know? My god sister thinks that is such a bnad idea.but i mean at this party everybody was so free and they had sex in front of each other. i mean they didnt sit down and watch each other because everybody was ******* but i mean it was really nice to see and through the night the couples switched partners, girls was with girls for the first time and so on and so forth. I think that this tests your love for your partner and it shows them you are tyhere for there exploritive ideas!!! This will improve the love in the relationship if nothing @ all you know?
2006-06-06 02:40:33 · update #1
I have done this and it's a great thing for a relationship in terms of opening up new communication.
You are not cheating if your partner knows about it and is there. If you're going behind your partners back then THAT is cheating.
That is a BIG difference.
Make up the rules that you and your partner will live by when going to these parties. and stick to those rules, don't change them in the heat of the moment. and don't force your partner to live by rules that they really don't want. that will make for resentment. So you see: you have to be very honest in your communications about this.
now relax and enjoy!!
tom
2006-06-06 02:52:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some people think that they would accept the third or fourth sex partners for their own spouse or partner ,but for sure they will regret and separate afterwards cause the pictures in your mind never could be removed,never except very few percentage human beings can accept and even enjoy it.Don't try it until too late.
2006-06-18 14:54:11 · answer #2 · answered by canada2006 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is the stupid thing in the world to ever due. If one of you doesnt get at lest a little upset over it, its cuz the don't really care. Everyone I know that was that been in a 3 way didnt stay together. My old roomate, and his wife had another girl in their bed. The girl stayed and he got kicked out. I know one guy that say's he and his wife stayed together because they were swingers, but he misses the point that their not together now.
2006-06-17 04:10:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not a good idea. But if you are going todo it, you have to accept that through this exploration with other partners she may find some one who she enjoys more sexually and emotionally.
2006-06-06 09:42:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How damn comlicated you have made your relationship!
Good luck , you've opened a big can of worms & I'm not sure you'll be able to put the lid back on!
One persons idea of cheating is another's idea of Fun. People get hurt, how's that Fun?
2006-06-06 09:40:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well your friend has a point be careful what you make a decision with because then hes gonna think he can go do it anytime and then hes gonna end up running off... well hope that helped
2006-06-06 09:42:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In this situation, your relationship with your partner would have be strong and both of you would have to be in agreement that this is what you both want.
2006-06-06 09:42:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Once a third person comes in, they never get out emotionally.
2006-06-06 09:38:55 · answer #8 · answered by yars232c 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but you lost me after the first paragraph, too much reading involved in this one
2006-06-06 11:04:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will not share my boyfriend in ANY way with another person....that is just asking for a heartache.
2006-06-06 09:58:06 · answer #10 · answered by ~*Proud Mommy*~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋