i love my gf but i make her mad all the time ,, and i dont know how 2 stop that stupid things ,, really i love her
2006-06-06 01:44:18 · 14 answers · asked by djmimooo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
the problem s ,, she knows that i love her ,,
and i cant live without her ,, she loves me 2 ,,but she get upset very easy ,,
2006-06-06 01:58:21 · update #1
Girls sometimes get mad at guys for stupid reasons when they are in love, because they expect that if they are going to give their heart to someone that the person will be as close to perfect as it gets. Learn from your mistakes. Everytime she gets mad at you find out why, and if it is reasonable, don't do it again! Call her just to say hi, bring her flowers once and a while, leave her cute little notes. Let her know how much you care. You have to put in half the effort in the relationship too you know. Abide by her wishes as long as they arnt completely insane, because love is give and take on both sides.
2006-06-06 01:51:11 · answer #1 · answered by so_hot_i_steam 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Talk to her, my bf (who is now my fiance) was like that too. He would say stupid things and push the wrong buttons with me and I would get ticked because things he thought were jokes were in fact hurtful things. So I kept getting mad with him and finally one day I was just like why the heck do you say those things? And he told me, the reason he says stupid things is because he loves me and when I was down in school in FL and not in MI with him that was his way of teasing me since we were far away from each other at the time. So the best thing is to talk with her about it and then gradually change the things you say and let her know that you love her and saying stupid things is just one of the ways you show her that you love her. Now that I spoke with my fiance about the things he says to me I understand his point and he understands my point that somethings you think are jokes in your mind can come off as something serious to the other person. And plus, we're only humans we make mistakes and you would like to think that people learn from there :)
2006-06-06 01:53:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love her than you have to sacrifice your stupidity. In life one has to learn to choose. If you don't change, in good time she will let you go.
2006-06-06 01:48:27 · answer #3 · answered by hpadbanabhan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you make her mad do something spontinus or romantic to show you really care about her e.g make her a romantic meal.
2006-06-06 01:51:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when there is too much of smth, always happens like this. find another way to express your love. instead of saying smth not worthy it, go kiss her, and decide not to talk for 3-4 minutes, until u feel that you angry has gone
2006-06-06 01:51:07 · answer #5 · answered by yonka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take control of the emotional atmosphere if you can. Otherwise you're going to be miserable with her in the future.
2006-06-06 01:48:08 · answer #6 · answered by Zelda Hunter 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she doesn't love you so she makes you think that you make her mad all the time
did you tell her you love her and did she tell you?
2006-06-06 01:48:37 · answer #7 · answered by princessjazzy_jazz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She obviously does not love you if she is always mad at you
2006-06-06 01:48:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe u should ask urself why do u treat her this way??is it because she had done something to deserve this treatment and she doesn't realizes it or simply because it's ur nature to treat ppl this way??
2006-06-06 01:52:08 · answer #9 · answered by su_quinn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are you making her mad.........try to make her happy otherwise she might.....leave you and you will feel hurt.....it now or never.....it is a saying that if you love someone you make her happy.....
2006-06-06 01:49:30 · answer #10 · answered by DEEKO 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋