He asked me to marry him twice i turned him down and said not now im not ready. After he got some he barely even calls or when we talk we argue. ANd he took my virginity . Just wanna hear everyone elses experiences
2006-06-06 01:44:08 · 9 answers · asked by lndsylcs 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Girl, guys will tell you what you want to hear to get what they want. Unfortunately, you were a virgin, so that was his goal...to take that from you. I hope in the future you are more cautious.
2006-06-06 01:49:11 · answer #1 · answered by fungirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you have not stated your age. If you are in the 13 to 15 year age group this is a common statement to get you in bed. If your older in 20 he is just a dog anyway> I hate to say this but I think he just got what he wanted. Be very careful in future there are some good ones but like with like everything you have to experience the rotten ones too
2006-06-06 01:53:26 · answer #2 · answered by midget580 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like from what you told us, he just used you. Yes there are alot of guys out there that do things sort of things. Maybe you should have waited until you were ready to get married? Did you all date for awhile? You said he asked you to marry him. If you didnt date for long then he was just using that to get you into bed. If this is the case then learn from your mistakes and dont let it happen again. Save the sex or love making for later. You will find a guy that will respect you and love you for you not for the sex. Good luck hun.
2006-06-06 01:51:56 · answer #3 · answered by bigdog_0032 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you mean, He got what he wanted and as much as it may hurt you don't show him!! If he don't want you the he isn't man enough to be with you, guys act like having a virgin is a trophy to them and it's not when we choose to take that step to go and have sex with someone (we as women do it out of love), and men don't remember that , Leave him alone you'll see if you give him a taste of his own medicine then he'll come asking you "why u don't talk to him no more" and then tell him "you got what u wanted now leave me the F alone"...... and move on to someone who does deserve to be with you!!
2006-06-06 02:15:07 · answer #4 · answered by •°♥Ms. SeXy♥°• 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately with a lot of men it is the chase that drives them. Once they get what they are chasing the hunt is done and the thrill is gone. Even more unfortunate is that you cannot tell untill you have given into him that he will turn on you. Give him his marching orders and forget about him. Sorry that he has taken you virginity.
2006-06-06 02:16:59 · answer #5 · answered by AussiePete 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Advice - just because some bloke tells you that he loves you, it doesn't mean that he is telling the truith! in the throws of passion men are famous for saying anything in order to get their end away.
The next time a guy says that he loves U - smile and say thank you, don't tell him u love him back untill he proves in his actions that he truly does love you. Then u wont get hurt, babes!
2006-06-06 01:54:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It was the way nearly every person is going to try really this is a real thing in life as that is the only point of attraction
2006-06-06 01:48:59 · answer #7 · answered by suraj06k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys will pretend 2b d nicest person in d whole wide world just 2 have a catch of ur V... it's like a trophy 2 them..
he's an a**hole so just move on & 4get abt him... there r nicer guys out there...
2006-06-06 02:52:55 · answer #8 · answered by 2D1iLuV 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men hav a tendency to change their minds like they change their socks. i havent had that experience but my bf says he loves me but continues to hurt me with it. sometimes its just best to move on in such a situation.
2006-06-06 01:49:57 · answer #9 · answered by zoe b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋