why people end up with the wrong love?

Answer 1

because they do not look deep into a person before starting a permanant relationship

Answer 2

Well this is indeed a very good question! At present I am going through a rough patch with my husband and that question has ran across my mind more than a hundred times atleast. I have been married for four years and June coming would of been 5 yrs. But at present we are separated. I am starting to believe that many people get into relationships for the wrong reasons. I have heard so many times that try to make your marriage work because you stood before man and God and said your vows but sometimes marriage relationships are not planned by God. I feel as though many times although we get married that is the person we chose and not the person God would of choosen for us. So behind every dark cloud there is a silver lining. Maybe God is trying to show us that this is not the person for us.

Answer 3

It is because they dont look for love. They look at bank balances, body, car they drive, house, and all the material things. To prove that material things do not matter, they get bored of that and at this stage this is when the love should be keeping the relationship strong and only to find out that there was never love in the first place. If people look for love, there might be obstacles along the relationship but if you remind yourself what actually brought you guys together, wheich should be love, then you are able to work around your problems

Answer 4

Too many people confuse love and lust. That in itself lies the problem. I see all of these younf people on here saying how they love someone, that isnt love, you dont know true love at 15. Your hormones are raging and you think its love but its really not. You need to keep in mind that you have to spend the rest of your life with this person, therefore you should get to know them very well. You shouldnt be allowed to marry until you have been together for at least two years. You need to knwo everything about them, including their bad habits, their ideosyncrasies, and do they fart in bed. Sounds funny but its very serious. People rush into things way to fast!

Answer 5

hmmm....there are many reasons really. One is stupidity, one is fear ( of finding no one else ), one is LOVE because they DO love the person they marry but grow out of that love. My personal experience is I got married because I had twins with my hub, and I was 24 and afraid that I may never be married if I didnt do it then. I was 24, with 4 kids...I have alot of baggage and it would have taken a STRONG man to deal with someone elses kids, especially 4, so mine was fear and children. There are so many different reasons...

Answer 6

There are many many things that make a relationship work and while physical attraction is one of them , sex is another , committment , responsability levels, social behavior etc. . . but NEVER will one of those reasons work alone.
Love , Marriage and/or relationships are hard work and most peoples attention spans are equal to that of a 10 year old.
Most aren't willing to put in what it takes or base their relationship on just one of the above reasons alone.

Answer 7

Cos love & emotions blind you. When you get involved and emotional, you lose your common sense, refuse to see reality and do stupid things. Hence, don't be surprised if you end up picking the wrong partner when your judgement is blinded. Sorry.

Answer 8

You choose who you love and so how can it be the wrong love if i may ask... Seek counseling and learn to make that person be the right love!

Answer 9

Because too many people settle for "good enough" instead of "fantastic" or "great".

It's such a waste of a lifetime.

Answer 10

because it takes time to get to know a person...that's why there's a big ocean out there -- and you can keep fishing!!!