Rebuilding Trust?

Question

My GF is giving me a second chance, she is not serious but she wants me to be with her and live together and see how things work out and how do I rebuild the trust back? I love her and I lied to her about my past relationship; I want to be my soul-mate.

Answer 1

You have to show her that you can be trustworthy again. This may take time and certainly an effort on your part but if your serious, you can do it. Show her how much you love her, do little things that she enjoys, call her sometimes out of the blue just to say I love you! It's the little things that can add up in a relationship.
I wish you luck

Answer 2

Work really hard if you love her. I was in the same situation as your gf and I gave my now bf a second chance. At first, he was amazing and wouldn't dare give me something to worry about. Now, three years later, there seems to always be some little thing that causes my trust to stay. I caught him helping his friend lie to his wife. If he is willing to put that much effort in helping him lie, why should I think he wouldn't do the same to me. It is a number of little things like that that add up and cause doubt. If you really want things to work, don't slack off after you gain her trust. If you continue to let her down, then she will gradually stop caring so much, even if she does love you. Good luck!

Answer 3

Once trust is broken it takes alot of work to rebuild it. As long as both people work at it, I believe it can happen. But remember not to bring past mistakes up. The past needs to be let go of if you're going to have a future together. Good luck and remember to be honest with each other!!

Answer 4

If she is not serious then do not do it.... Let her go and also you should not live with someone before you marry them.