I'm in love, should I take a leap of faith, so to speak?
2006-06-06 00:28:15 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
YES absolutely with out a doubt...
Spend some time together first... You both may have had some changes and you may need to work through them first
2006-06-06 00:31:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not crazy to marry someone you haven't seen in a year.
Question? What is a leap of faith for you? Is it to ask him to marry you? Are you going to have sex? Are you going to pop the question?
Leave that question to him! Don't push the marriage issue. Let the man bring up that topic. Never lead him into "marriage talks".
If marriage isn't coming out of his own mouth without your help. Guess what, you're on different planets.
Slow down with the marriage stuff and let him initiate the journey.
2006-06-06 00:41:09 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes and no.
Yes it's crazy and No don't take a leap of faith. You can't tell what a person is really like from letters and/or phone calls. Spend some time together so his real personality comes out.
2006-06-06 00:34:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're obviously having doubts, if you have to ask a bunch of strangers. I suggest that delay the wedding a little bit so that you and him can spend sometime to rediscover each other. love is all airy-fairy when you're not committed and not in each other's face - it may become a totally different matter when you actually start to get to know the deeper facts about one-other.
And before you think it, you can't possibly know him properly if you've had a whole year's long distance thing - you've changed in this time and so has he. So make sure you're still compatible with those changes!!
2006-06-06 00:32:41 · answer #4 · answered by conspicuous 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust and faith are both a complicated words all in all. Personally, it may be the right thing to do, but then take some time to understand each other before you really jump the guns. Get to know each other first than realizing things late!
"Life is so simple; we make it difficult"
Cheers!
2006-06-06 00:32:06 · answer #5 · answered by Iowa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being in a long distance relationship with someone is totally different than being with someone in person. You can't really get to know someone without spending quality time with them and finding out what they're all about. Don't act on impulse, take your time and really get to know this person.
2006-06-06 00:41:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not crazy. Go for it. Divorce will happen to 3 out of 4 Americans anyway. Get started early!
2006-06-06 01:17:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your in love and you know that he loves you the same ....go for it... but make sure its real.....i was in a long distance relantionship for about 7-8 years....year one and two....everythying was cool...we was in love, was talking about marrIage etc....then something happened,...she was acting weird....then didnt talk to me for almost 6-7 months....then she called me back , and told me that she had met someone else.....i had figured it out after a few months that , that was probably the reason....she was apologectic etc...so i took her back because i still loved her....but gradually she had changed...was getting more and more mean and nasty, crazy mood swings, hollering at me, hanging up the phone on me etc....was planning on her moving down here....but things always came up...., came to a point where i hardly knew her anymore...the person i had fell in love with was like a total different person....she recently stopped talking to me....havent heard from her in a few months.....its probably over....we never 'offically broke up"...but whenever i wanted to get some clarity on our relationship she would get mad, say she didnt want to talk about it or "argue" with me,...but at the same time, she was giving me all this hints....she would sometimes say that i am overreacting.....but she hasnt told me how she felt about me for months.....years since she told me that she loved me....and she used to tell me every single day, its almost like we never fell in love....its weird....but just be careful that he totally feels the same way for you. good luck
2006-06-06 00:53:20 · answer #8 · answered by craig h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! You better be really sure of who that person really is. In good times. In bad times.
Better to not be married and wish you were, than to be married and wish you weren't.
2006-06-06 01:25:41 · answer #9 · answered by ♥honey♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's crazy to marry
be smart and avoid the biggest mistake most ppl make
don't get married
enjoy your life, youth and beauty
marriage is for suckers!
2006-06-06 00:35:26 · answer #10 · answered by chicawhappa-the-great 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋