she waz a good family friend then suddenly everyone started 2 hate her because she said something bad about my cousin,all she said was that my cuz iz a copy cat she copies everything from her even her dresscode i think it was 2003or04.The problem iz i really like her shez like my second mom 2 me coz she gives me advice about boys shez alwayz there,shes a married woman with 2 kids sometimes i even wish she was my real mom she iz so understanding her friends,kids like me.Wheneva i want 2 visit her they alwayz say no&tel my mom that she mustn't allow me 2 go there.Shes like a family 2 me shes also my aunt friend.I think mom doesnt even know wat 2 do,wether 2 side with me or them but i want 2 let her understand that theres nothing they can do especially her sisters.plz help me wat must i do they are like a family 2 me&my family hates her i really dont like wat iz happening,this 1time she ask me why they hates so much&i said i dont know.I just dont wana get into their problems plz help me!
2006-06-05 23:54:44 · 9 answers · asked by baby-gal 'Tumeka' 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i dont know what u can do but the fact that everyone doesnt talk to her means u shouldnt talk to her as well, what she said was not something so serious, u people should think about the fact that she's been the family's friend for a long time, try to talk to any other olderly person and hear the person's opinion.
2006-06-06 00:25:23 · answer #1 · answered by SeXyBaBe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are right to stay out of their terrifically petty arguments. If you are still a minor then you have to mind your mom and whatever decision she makes because no matter how much you like this other lady she is not your mom. Maybe over time things will cool out. If not then just move on. No you don't have to be rude to her, but, you do have to obey your parent. No your aunts should not have any say in what you and your mom decide. They sound like two petty busy bodies. Talk to your mom, let her know your position and pray that she understands. Things may not turn out your way but I have a feeling that either way you will be okay. You may end up with a broken heart, but, they do mend over time. Okay? I wish you all the luck in world on this.
2006-06-16 19:49:23 · answer #2 · answered by Oracle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, I think that you shouldn't be put between the two of you because she is just like your friend and when you have your friend, family cannot interfere with that. If they hate her then that's their problem and they shouldn't use you against her. Fight to what you believe and tell your family that hatred is never a good feeling and they should STOP interfering your friendship with her. I commend her for being there for you when you needed her and you for always sticking to what you believe. The problem is not yours and personally I think that its the most stupidest excuse for hating someone. I am sorry to what I am about to say but they are immature and very selfish. They need to get their act together and act like human beings. Stupid things like this are not worthy of being called "problems." I wish you good luck with your family and I hope that your problem gets better. I advice you to keep talking to her because she seems like a good person.
2006-06-18 08:48:32 · answer #3 · answered by Emily Isn't Lazy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No..pls don't!! especially you don't have any problem with her directly.
And i really don't understand is..why your whole family over reacted and hate her that much for the simple mistake..is only words!!! find out why she told that thing, it must be a reason behind..maybe she was right from her side!! don't jugde her too much.
If you likes her...so please show her what you feel, visit her and don't make any distance with her. it is not fair!!!
Hope you can bring peace to your whole family....Good Luck!!
2006-06-19 18:07:26 · answer #4 · answered by Fie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. The adage: "while existence delivers lemons, make lemonade" isn't the only answer. interior the sport Portal 2, Cave Johnson says "Make existence take the lemons back! save your stupid lemons, existence!" the explanation in the back of that philosophy is that one has no decision in existence. bitter and candy are available in a number of doses, at diverse situations.
2016-10-30 07:28:36 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
**if god can bring u to it he can lead u through it** all i am saying is that everything will come out right at the end of the day.
2006-06-19 02:55:11 · answer #6 · answered by fobstah14 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, she's apart of your family, you should never ignore your family. She was just being honest
2006-06-19 04:34:54 · answer #7 · answered by jo47 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what doz she think about you?
2006-06-17 16:13:11 · answer #8 · answered by Staysia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no
2006-06-19 23:43:21 · answer #9 · answered by hotwheelswd31 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋