No matter what I do i can't seem to do n-ething right for her, and the nerve of acussing me for having other girls in my life just does'nt add up 2 me but a gulty vibe for her, but I can only be so nice because of her denial on her unfaithfullness when physical proof is at hand, and the one really getting played here was her, i am stressing only because we have a beatiful daughter 2gether a family is what i am tring to give her but is there a way to do this? Help...
2006-06-05 23:47:00 · 10 answers · asked by spyroe13 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
She cheated on you because she dont love you, If she trully loved you, she wouldnt have cheated. If you take her back again now....she will cheat again, as you have allowed her to get away with It. As for your Daughter, get a Solicitor/Lawyer and arrange access/child support. Dont ever stay with someone for a child If you are`nt happy. My Mum and Dad done that for us Kids, and to be honest, we really wished they had`nt. the house was a battleground. and believe me, Kids really know when parents are pretending to be happy. My advice to you love, leave her cheating ***, sort out access/custody to your child, and move on. Best of luck.
2006-06-05 23:55:11 · answer #1 · answered by tracietuk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not a bad guy at all you are a great guy to take her back but try and tell her that she has to gain your trust again and if you cant do anything rite ask her what you are doing wrong and if she doesn't have a good answer I think it may be best if you think about moving on but always remember that you have a little girl together and that to make her happy you have to be happy
2006-06-06 07:00:15 · answer #2 · answered by i_love_john_cena_009 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your girlfriend won't admit to cheating when you know she did then it's not worth it. the best thing you can do for your daughter is not put up with the cheating. do counseling if possible, but don't stay just for your daughter. it'll be a very stressful environment for her and when she gets old enough to know what happened it will teach her that putting up with cheating is okay. that's not a message you want to send.
2006-06-06 06:55:29 · answer #3 · answered by vampire_kitti 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds to me she really don't want a relationship with you and she is trying to justify her cheating on you by using lame reasons the real question is did you take her back cause you loved her or did you take her back to ease a gulty vibe it sounds to me she is using you as a relationship of convience for her convince.
2006-06-06 06:55:39 · answer #4 · answered by precious52801 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be 100% sure she is cheating before you get worked up, If she is you are in for total hell because if you stay with her you will always wonder if shes doing it again.
2006-06-06 06:58:08 · answer #5 · answered by johanna f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for me it is not a bad decision. giving a person a second chance is always a good decision that is she s really sorry for she did. for me the meaning of sorry is i will not commit the same thing again. not every man can do what you did and i admire you for that. and kiddo's to your daughter for having you as her father.
2006-06-06 06:57:15 · answer #6 · answered by rodsaints 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to find out if your beautiful daughter is really yours then if she's your girl then try to understand your girlfriend and have an open communication with her... but if the baby's not yours, then go. move on!
2006-06-06 06:54:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u do love her very much and she has stopped cheating then u are not a bad guy, no one's perfect we all make mistakes.
2006-06-06 06:52:48 · answer #8 · answered by SeXyBaBe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of her. or live in misery..not a good thing for your kid either ya think?
2006-06-06 06:54:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She dont love you,go now while you still have some dignity
2006-06-06 06:54:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋