My boy friend is super protective about me, he gets upset even when I talk to other boys. Help me cool him.?

Question

He gets mad whenever I talk, touch or even smile at another boy. I've told him a million times that I am not gonna commit myself to him only, but he doesn't understand, and when I had broken up with him, he stalked me around and he said that he'd kill himself for me.
HELP ME!!!!!!!!!
I AM NOT GONNA COMMIT MYSELF TO ONE PERSON AT 15!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 1

I dated guys like that, they didn't like it so I left. That isn't something you can deal with all the time, and you date to look for a mate. I say just point out when ever he's all over another girl, but don't get mad at him. But if you're dating you should be committed to him and be more careful of your flirtatious actions, but when your single flirt all you want. But since you dating back off a bit.

Answer 2

I so hope you are still reading answers to your question. This is very concerning behavior. This is not a good situation and his responses are not appropriate. Talk to your parents about this, have them talk to his parents and then in no uncertain terms BREAK UP WITH HIM! Leave him no room for doubt. If he is stalking you take friends with you and TELL YOUR PARENTS! If he decides to "kill himself" then that is his action and none of your doing. No one can make another person do anything they do not want to do so it will not be your fault! I also commend you for sounding mature enough not to commit yourself at 15. Continue to be smart. If you can't tell your parents then talk to a school counselor or an adult you trust.

Answer 3

Exactly!! You shouldnt commit yourself to one person so young. You have a life to live and things to experience. Hes selfish for being so over protective. If he doesnt trust you then why are you guys in a relationship?

Answer 4

tell him 2 stop being a stupid PU*SY how pathetic can he get, i mean seriously i bet he looks at other gurls and smiles at them, u dont need this tell him he better pull his finger outta his butt and stop making such a big deal or thats it *we need space* if it gets 2 sevre then get a restraing order on him, but u dont need that there r plenty more great guys out there ur young go out, have fun forget about ur obssesive b/f

Answer 5

I would not call him protective. It's called controlling and mentally abusive.. This behavior leads to guys becoming wife beaters. Get out of this relationship.

Answer 6

Try to conveince him that ur not only his friend ,u like to make ur world wide and beautiful.he loves u for that reason he is feeling insecure when u talk or smile with others.it is not a big problem if u handle it brilliantly.when you talk with others introduce him with your friends.so he is not feeling lonely and insecure.he try to understand that u r not ignoring him.try to make him happy and secure.give him lot of time and care.build confidence in it.so he try to make his behaviour positive.

Answer 7

this is often the case at such a young a. it is a difficult time for both of you. i know i have had the same problem. there isn't a lot that you can do but to get on with things. don't allow him to blackmail you with "I'll kill my self"

Answer 8

five words honey : BREAK UP WITH HIM NOW!!


don't even think about staying with him for the next second of your teenage life or you will regret dating him in the first place. he sounds like a mega possesive guy who is TROUBLE!

Answer 9

u know what he just wants to make sure you don't go out and do something stupid. but it still doest give him the right to controll u. you need what u need to do is get a restraining order.

Answer 10

dude just make him brake up with you and then if he doesnt this is how you cool guys down just tell them they shouldnt be jelouse because he is the one that has you not the other guys